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    Is Her Situationship Keeping Her Single?
    Christan
    • Jan 18, 2021
    • 3 min

    Is Her Situationship Keeping Her Single?

    Known this guy for 30 years,- best friends brother. he clears his schedule for me on weekends - night my choice - wines and dines - has...
    93 views0 comments
    Signs Your Date Is Toxic
    Christan
    • Sep 23, 2020
    • 4 min

    Signs Your Date Is Toxic

    We'd been sitting at our corner two-top table for less than thirty minutes when it started. I could barely finish a sentence without him...
    61 views0 comments
    How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
    Christan
    • Jul 22, 2020
    • 4 min

    How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?

    I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
    94 views0 comments
    Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?
    Christan
    • Apr 8, 2020
    • 4 min

    Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?

    How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...
    111 views0 comments
    When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness
    Christan
    • Jan 8, 2020
    • 6 min

    When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness

    Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
    108 views1 comment
    Why Are We So Afraid Of Being Alone?
    Christan
    • Dec 22, 2019
    • 5 min

    Why Are We So Afraid Of Being Alone?

    Confused asks: Comment: Hi.  About 6 years ago I met a man online when I was living in NYC.  We went out twice and had sex on the 2nd...
    124 views0 comments
    How To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too Quickly
    Christan
    • Dec 17, 2019
    • 8 min

    How To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too Quickly

    Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks,...
    429 views2 comments
    Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?
    Christan
    • Nov 26, 2019
    • 3 min

    Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?

    Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are...
    144 views0 comments
    Should You Tell Someone You've Never Had a Relationship?
    Christan
    • Nov 24, 2019
    • 4 min

    Should You Tell Someone You've Never Had a Relationship?

    Tim asks: I am 28 years old and have a very strange problem:  I've never dated more than one or two dates with anyone.  The reason for...
    208 views1 comment

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