Trauma

Is Her Situationship Keeping Her Single?

Known this guy for 30 years,- best friends brother. he clears his schedule for me on weekends - night my choice - wines and dines - has...

Signs Your Date Is Toxic

We'd been sitting at our corner two-top table for less than thirty minutes when it started. I could barely finish a sentence without him...

How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?

I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...

Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?

How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...

When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness

Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...

Why Are We So Afraid Of Being Alone?

Confused asks: Comment: Hi. About 6 years ago I met a man online when I was living in NYC. We went out twice and had sex on the 2nd...

How To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too Quickly

Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks,...

Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?

Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are...

Should You Tell Someone You've Never Had a Relationship?

Tim asks: I am 28 years old and have a very strange problem: I've never dated more than one or two dates with anyone. The reason for...