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    Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign
    Christan
    • Feb 21, 2021
    • 2 min

    Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign

    When matching up on an app ; you chat and maybe talk on the phone - then the next day the “good morning “ texts start — what is...
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    How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message
    Christan
    • Nov 15, 2020
    • 2 min

    How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

    the percentage of replies you get on "introducing" yourself is very very small. Should you send a large number of "hello" type messages...
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    Reasons Your Match Thinks You're A Creep
    Christan
    • Sep 27, 2020
    • 3 min

    Reasons Your Match Thinks You're A Creep

    And - YES - this applies to men and women. I met a nice guy seemingly online. He is professional, smart, good looking. But he keeps...
    69 views0 comments
    Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates
    Christan
    • Aug 2, 2020
    • 4 min

    Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates

    Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...
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    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020
    Christan
    • Jul 30, 2020
    • 1 min

    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020

    Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...
    49 views1 comment
    Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Jul 29, 2020
    • 3 min

    Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile

    I have been chatting with this guy on Match.com for awhile now and he does not want to meet in person till after the pandemic is over!...
    86 views0 comments
    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
    Christan
    • Jul 15, 2020
    • 5 min

    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost

    It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
    198 views0 comments
    How To Love Online Dating Again
    Christan
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Love Online Dating Again

    I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
    104 views0 comments
    How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
    Christan
    • Jun 14, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less

    In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
    139 views0 comments
    Why Isn't He Making Any Effort?
    Christan
    • May 5, 2020
    • 4 min

    Why Isn't He Making Any Effort?

    I'm in my mid 50's and last year my husband left me for another woman after 13 years together. It was a terrible shock as I had no...
    173 views1 comment

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