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    Podcast - First Date Fails, Bad Teeth & Disasterous Dating Advice
    Christan
    • Oct 22, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - First Date Fails, Bad Teeth & Disasterous Dating Advice

    If you knew something about a friend's appearance was keeping them single, would you tell them? We discuss that and ways people set...
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    When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?
    Christan
    • Sep 8, 2020
    • 3 min

    When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?

    How soon should you mention that you are looking for something serious leading to marriage without sounding like you want to rush things...
    49 views0 comments
    The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married
    Christan
    • Sep 1, 2020
    • 4 min

    The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married

    Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...
    56 views0 comments
    How To Love Online Dating Again
    Christan
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Love Online Dating Again

    I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
    104 views0 comments
    Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
    Christan
    • Jul 8, 2020
    • 4 min

    Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?

    I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
    197 views0 comments
    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?
    Christan
    • Jun 22, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?

    How come I only seem to get approached by either physically or emotionally unavailable men?  The only 3 types that ever seem interested ...
    94 views0 comments
    Including Disclaimers & Deal Breakers In Dating Profiles
    Christan
    • May 28, 2020
    • 5 min

    Including Disclaimers & Deal Breakers In Dating Profiles

    Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
    136 views0 comments
    The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear
    Christan
    • May 13, 2020
    • 4 min

    The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear

    Ok Cupid says I have over 700 likes. Yet, none seem to have a paid membership where they can send me a message. They do send me profiles...
    205 views0 comments
    How Long Are Men Expected To Pay For Dates?
    Christan
    • Apr 19, 2020
    • 2 min

    How Long Are Men Expected To Pay For Dates?

    When dating, how many dates should the man offer to pay for all the dates. When is it okay to go Dutch? I want to say that things should...
    210 views0 comments
    Should You Tell Someone They Don't Look Like Their Photos?
    Christan
    • Jan 15, 2020
    • 3 min

    Should You Tell Someone They Don't Look Like Their Photos?

    What's the etiquette when you meet someone for the first time via an online dating website, and you can clearly see he or she is much...
    1,138 views2 comments
    Should Men Pay For Dates Because They Earn More?
    Christan
    • Jan 12, 2020
    • 3 min

    Should Men Pay For Dates Because They Earn More?

    Ah, yes. The "Who Pays?" question. But this time, we've put a little spin on it. The screen shots below are from an Instagram post...
    148 views1 comment
    Why Can't She Meet Any Hot Alpha Men Her Age?
    Christan
    • Dec 15, 2019
    • 8 min

    Why Can't She Meet Any Hot Alpha Men Her Age?

    Rose asks: I'm a late bloomer who has enjoyed being single, but finally (in the past 3 to 4 years) truly desires a full fledged intimacy...
    205 views3 comments

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