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    Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship
    Christan
    • Oct 8, 2021
    • 5 min

    Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship

    I had very little success in dating before 2020, but since the pandemic the amount of online dating users increased significantly and I...
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    Never Do This With Your Bumble Match
    Christan
    • Sep 19, 2020
    • 5 min

    Never Do This With Your Bumble Match

    There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
    70 views0 comments
    Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits
    Christan
    • Sep 13, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits

    This one's about figuring out your dating league and when to shoot out of it. We also talk about the dangers of dating a narcissist....
    31 views0 comments
    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020
    Christan
    • Jul 30, 2020
    • 1 min

    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020

    Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...
    49 views1 comment
    How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
    Christan
    • Jul 22, 2020
    • 4 min

    How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?

    I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
    94 views0 comments
    The Mean Girl Myth
    Christan
    • May 6, 2020
    • 1 min

    The Mean Girl Myth

    What color crayon is your heart? We ask ourselves that as we delve into the intra-gender bullying and the Mean Girl Myth. Speaking of...
    71 views0 comments
    Podcast Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex
    Christan
    • Mar 21, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex

    Ugh. First up, we talk about how one vindictive man tried to ruin the life of a female professor by falsely accusing her of sexual ...
    66 views0 comments
    He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
    Christan
    • Feb 17, 2020
    • 6 min

    He Can Be Both Victim And Villain

    In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
    119 views1 comment
    Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes
    Christan
    • Feb 12, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes

    We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...
    73 views0 comments
    Why Did He Suddenly Blow Her Off?
    Christan
    • Feb 11, 2020
    • 3 min

    Why Did He Suddenly Blow Her Off?

    Bella asks: I've been dating this guy for a few weeks (our last date was Saturday - our fifth date) and wanted to get your perspective...
    147 views0 comments
    Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies
    Christan
    • Jan 17, 2020
    • 3 min

    Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies

    Linda asks: I've been texting and emailing with this guy I met online for over two months. We attempted to meet a few times, but he...
    88 views2 comments
    Is He Just In It For The Sex?
    Christan
    • Jan 2, 2020
    • 5 min

    Is He Just In It For The Sex?

    Nicole asks: I have a question about online dating and exclusivity that's sort of tangentially related to your most recent piece on...
    115 views1 comment
    Signs He's Just Looking For Sex
    Christan
    • Nov 22, 2019
    • 3 min

    Signs He's Just Looking For Sex

    Comment: Hello.  I am a 33 year old single woman with no children, have my own successful business and I'm considered very attractive. ...
    295 views0 comments

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