F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition
Hold on to your butts. We go on a RANT about why women need to stop caring if men ghost after sex. It doesn't matter, ladies. Fuck that...
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Christan
- Oct 6, 2021
- 1 min
CouchGuy, Pervy Messages & Requests For Nude Pics
In this episode: 1. The #Couchguy viral video on Tik Tok and why it's another example of people getting off watching a woman be...
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Christan
- Sep 20, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...
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Christan
- Aug 13, 2020
- 3 min
The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex
In my dating profile I say I'm looking for a long-term relationship but I still get emails from guys only looking to hook-up. How do I...
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Christan
- Jul 27, 2020
- 5 min
Sex And The City: COVID Edition
Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
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Christan
- Jun 9, 2020
- 6 min
The Other Woman Is Not To Blame Because Your Man Sucks
Medium continues to serve up essays reeking of internalized misogyny with this latest pile of word vomit. Who is the Other Woman? I have...
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Christan
- Apr 29, 2020
- 2 min
Do Men Still Expect Women To Have Sex By The Third Date?
In the (barely) over 50 dating category, are women still "expected" to have sex with the guy on/following the 3rd date or the 3rd week...
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Christan
- Apr 26, 2020
- 3 min
Write Messages That Get You Dates
I mention a lot of things in my Tinder profile. I mention my work in trauma recovery; my dog walking, my love of yoga and wine. I even...
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Christan
- Apr 15, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Weird Break-Ups, Zoom First Dates & Why You Keep Meeting Men Who "Just Want Sex"
We talk about getting dumped on Zoom aka "zumped", a man with the lamest excuse for breaking up with his girlfriend and why you keep...
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Christan
- Apr 12, 2020
- 3 min
Are Dating Apps Full of Men Just Looking For Sex?
Hi, prior to the virus pandemic I explored online dating without success. I have encountered that the quality of men on these sites is...
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Christan
- Mar 17, 2020
- 3 min
Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?
Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
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Christan
- Mar 1, 2020
- 4 min
How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
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Christan
- Feb 17, 2020
- 6 min
He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
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Christan
- Jan 16, 2020
- 3 min
Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies
Linda asks: I've been texting and emailing with this guy I met online for over two months. We attempted to meet a few times, but he...
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Christan
- Dec 10, 2019
- 4 min
Your Sexual History Is Nobody's Business
Name: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few...
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Christan
- Nov 17, 2019
- 6 min
What To Do When They'll Have Sex With You But Won't Date You
From: sointohim30 Comment: Hi! I've read so many articles and I still don't know what to do. I met this guy this summer. We live...
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Christan
- Nov 17, 2019
- 3 min
Should She Stop Sleeping With Her Co-worker?
Name: Leyna Question: I am a straight woman who is fuck buddies with my hot, younger male coworker (30). The sexual tension between us...
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