When He Unmatches You After The First Date
"Had a seemingly great first date. Came home and went to send him a thank you message and he'd already unmatched me. So confused as to...
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Christan
- Jan 1, 2021
- 3 min
How Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?
An ex I walked out on last Christmas reappeared via email asking if I’d be in town so that he can give me a gift he’d previously bought...
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Christan
- Jan 1, 2021
- 1 min
Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...
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Christan
- Nov 3, 2020
- 4 min
Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You
You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....
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Christan
- Sep 20, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...
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Christan
- Sep 19, 2020
- 5 min
Never Do This With Your Bumble Match
There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
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Christan
- Aug 18, 2020
- 3 min
Why Did She Dump Him After Sex?
After two weeks of texting and three dates, a woman I met on Tinder said she wasn't feeling it and wanted us to be friends. (We were...
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Christan
- Jul 22, 2020
- 4 min
How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
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Christan
- Jul 20, 2020
- 4 min
Are Dating Apps Racist?
Hello, I live in New York. I am Muslim and pretty much I’m open to having a relationship with anyone from any culture and religion. But I...
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Christan
- Jul 8, 2020
- 4 min
Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
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Christan
- Jun 18, 2020
- 2 min
When Is It Okay To Talk Money?
What do you make of someone revealing their financial problems after only a couple of dates? In general, talking finances that early on...
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Christan
- Mar 17, 2020
- 3 min
Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?
Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
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Christan
- Mar 4, 2020
- 6 min
Beware The First Date Flake
By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...
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Christan
- Mar 1, 2020
- 4 min
How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
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Christan
- Feb 23, 2020
- 4 min
Why Do Women Keep Dumping Him?
Jay asks: I want to discuss a trend that I have noticed recently. I'll start with an actual example. First off (for background), I am 31...
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Christan
- Feb 20, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too
We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...
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Christan
- Feb 19, 2020
- 2 min
I Have First Date Jitters
I'm not a fan of the new Instagram trend of posting trashy dating app messages hoping to become an influencer. Most of those accounts are...
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Christan
- Feb 17, 2020
- 6 min
He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
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Christan
- Feb 6, 2020
- 4 min
Write A Dating App Bio That Gets You Dates
Anne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been...
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Christan
- Feb 3, 2020
- 1 min
It's Okay To Hope Against Hope
I still don't know what happened. He could have just ghosted me because he wasn't that interested or wasn't ready to meet or one of a...
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