Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!) date.  They worry th...

By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social butterfly. So why do so...

Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually engaging in polite g...

Jay asks: I want to discuss a trend that I have noticed recently. I'll start with an actual example. First off (for background), I am 31 year old single mal...

We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past dates; toxic boyfri...

I'm not a fan of the new Instagram trend of posting trashy dating app messages hoping to become an influencer. Most of those accounts are run by people who a...

In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being told repeatedly to ...

Anne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been nightmares, and OkCupi...

I still don't know what happened. He could have just ghosted me because he wasn't that interested or wasn't ready to meet or one of a few dozen reasons tha...

Linda asks: I've been texting and emailing with this guy I met online for over two months. We attempted to meet a few times, but he cancelled once and I ha...

Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks, which he initiated. We w...

Holiday season is upon us and many singles are hoping to find someone special. If that's you and you've been using dating apps like Tinder & Bumble with no l...

Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are emotionally unavailab...

Alias Homegirl Comment: I apologize for the length of this, but I don't know if you can assess the situation without going into some major detail (and I...

Tim asks: I am 28 years old and have a very strange problem:  I've never dated more than one or two dates with anyone.  The reason for this has been that I...

Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused Comment: How do you reconcile the need to be attracted to your mate and not lowering your self-esteem by dating...

In many ways, the after-math of a relationship with a narcissist is just if not more damaging than the relationship itself. This is Part 1 of my series call...

Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Worthy while unemployed? Comment: I have read this column enough to know to refrain from being socially inept, show blat...