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    Why People Lie In Their Dating Profiles
    Christan
    • Aug 27, 2020
    • 4 min

    Why People Lie In Their Dating Profiles

    More from Reddit. Just joined Hinge a few weeks ago. This is the first guy who actually seems to want to take me on an actual date and...
    44 views0 comments
    Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
    Christan
    • Aug 26, 2020
    • 5 min

    Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?

    Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...
    81 views0 comments
    Always Swipe Left On These Profiles
    Christan
    • Aug 16, 2020
    • 4 min

    Always Swipe Left On These Profiles

    Hi, I enjoyed most of your article about the signs that indicate “The #1 sign they’re only looking for sex!” The part I disagree with is...
    49 views0 comments
    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020
    Christan
    • Jul 30, 2020
    • 1 min

    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020

    Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...
    49 views1 comment
    Fuck That Guy: Unsolved Mysteries Edition
    Christan
    • Jul 7, 2020
    • 1 min

    Fuck That Guy: Unsolved Mysteries Edition

    Put on your tin foil hat and pull up a chair. We're talking the mysterious death of Rey Rivera. His body plunged through the roof of a ...
    60 views0 comments
    Social Distance Dating Tips
    Christan
    • Jun 28, 2020
    • 5 min

    Social Distance Dating Tips

    I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
    117 views0 comments
    Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing
    Christan
    • May 10, 2020
    • 5 min

    Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing

    When Patrick* messaged me mere minutes after I liked one of his photos, I knew something was off. It’s never been that easy. Usually, it...
    77 views0 comments
    Is He A Flake or A Scammer?
    Christan
    • Apr 1, 2020
    • 4 min

    Is He A Flake or A Scammer?

    I've had a lot of bad online dating experiences and I'd be grateful for a perspective specific to them. I am a little picky about who I...
    105 views0 comments
    It's Okay To Hope Against Hope
    Christan
    • Feb 3, 2020
    • 1 min

    It's Okay To Hope Against Hope

    I still don't know what happened. He could have just ghosted me because he wasn't that interested or wasn't ready to meet or one of a...
    115 views0 comments
    How To Avoid 
Dating App Ghosts & Flakes
    Christan
    • Jan 27, 2020
    • 7 min

    How To Avoid Dating App Ghosts & Flakes

    Laura asks: I'm relatively new to dating apps. Still navigating these waters mostly, but so far my experience seems to be pretty...
    265 views0 comments
    Podcast - Meet Romance Scammer Derek Alldred
    Christan
    • Jan 20, 2020
    • 2 min

    Podcast - Meet Romance Scammer Derek Alldred

    "DL" ASKS: I’m a 52 year old male and have been single most of my life. My last relationship ended ten years ago. I have had zero luck...
    120 views2 comments
    Signs Of Dating Scammers You Might Be Missing
    Christan
    • Dec 19, 2019
    • 2 min

    Signs Of Dating Scammers You Might Be Missing

    Dating scams are at an all time high thanks to the never-ending amount of social media platforms and dating apps. Anywhere someone can...
    157 views1 comment

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