When Will Her Married Boyfriend Leave His Wife?
I was a married and hooked up with a married man at a mutual friend’s party. No excuse-My husband was ten years older than me and we’d...
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Christan
- Mar 21, 2021
- 3 min
Traumatic Effects Of A Breakup
38 years old guy in my hometown found me on tinder as I was temporarily visiting home. I was ready for a hookup but instead he ...
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Christan
- Jan 17, 2021
- 3 min
Is Her Situationship Keeping Her Single?
Known this guy for 30 years,- best friends brother. he clears his schedule for me on weekends - night my choice - wines and dines - has...
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Christan
- Jan 1, 2021
- 3 min
How Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?
An ex I walked out on last Christmas reappeared via email asking if I’d be in town so that he can give me a gift he’d previously bought...
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Christan
- Dec 30, 2020
- 3 min
Is He Hiding A Secret Life?
Saw you on tiktok and wanted to reach out. I’m having some issues dealing with my boyfriend’s handling or lack there of when it comes to...
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Christan
- Sep 8, 2020
- 3 min
When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?
How soon should you mention that you are looking for something serious leading to marriage without sounding like you want to rush things...
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Christan
- May 22, 2020
- 3 min
How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?
I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our...
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Christan
- Apr 8, 2020
- 4 min
Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?
How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...
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Christan
- Mar 29, 2020
- 4 min
How Does He Tell Her He Doesn't Want To Get Married?
I don't see so many postings here from men, but here goes. I've been dating my current girlfriend for six months now. Next month, we are...
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Christan
- Feb 23, 2020
- 4 min
Why Do Women Keep Dumping Him?
Jay asks: I want to discuss a trend that I have noticed recently. I'll start with an actual example. First off (for background), I am 31...
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Christan
- Feb 11, 2020
- 3 min
Why Did He Suddenly Blow Her Off?
Bella asks: I've been dating this guy for a few weeks (our last date was Saturday - our fifth date) and wanted to get your perspective...
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Christan
- Jan 20, 2020
- 2 min
Podcast - Meet Romance Scammer Derek Alldred
"DL" ASKS: I’m a 52 year old male and have been single most of my life. My last relationship ended ten years ago. I have had zero luck...
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Christan
- Jan 10, 2020
- 3 min
How Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?
I'm a 32-year-old man; I spent the majority of my 20s in a couple of long-term relationships and so never really got used to "dating." ...
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Christan
- Jan 8, 2020
- 6 min
When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness
Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
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Christan
- Jan 6, 2020
- 3 min
Is He Cheap Or Just Bitter?
Cecilia asks: Hi Christan and Sarah! I've been dating a guy (he's 28) for the past ten months. It's my first "serious" ( or as serious...
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Christan
- Jan 2, 2020
- 5 min
Is He Just In It For The Sex?
Nicole asks: I have a question about online dating and exclusivity that's sort of tangentially related to your most recent piece on...
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Christan
- Dec 25, 2019
- 3 min
Why Playing Hard To Get Never Works
Pilot Girl asks: Comment: I met a guy a few months ago through a friend. He's a little younger and works crazy hours in the investment...
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Christan
- Dec 22, 2019
- 5 min
Why Are We So Afraid Of Being Alone?
Confused asks: Comment: Hi. About 6 years ago I met a man online when I was living in NYC. We went out twice and had sex on the 2nd...
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Christan
- Dec 17, 2019
- 8 min
How To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too Quickly
Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks,...
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Christan
- Dec 10, 2019
- 4 min
Your Sexual History Is Nobody's Business
Name: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few...
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