I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our conversation he asked what ...

How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in having privacy. If y...

I don't see so many postings here from men, but here goes. I've been dating my current girlfriend for six months now. Next month, we are going on our first v...

Jay asks: I want to discuss a trend that I have noticed recently. I'll start with an actual example. First off (for background), I am 31 year old single mal...

Bella asks: I've been dating this guy for a few weeks (our last date was Saturday - our fifth date) and wanted to get your perspective on whether or not I'...

"DL" ASKS: I’m a 52 year old male and have been single most of my life. My last relationship ended ten years ago. I have had zero luck meeting anyone on da...

I'm a 32-year-old man; I spent the majority of my 20s in a couple of long-term relationships and so never really got used to "dating."  After some introspec...

Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's never completely rec...

Cecilia asks: Hi Christan and Sarah! I've been dating a guy (he's 28) for the past ten months. It's my first "serious" ( or as serious as a 1 year relations...

Nicole asks: I have a question about online dating and exclusivity that's sort of tangentially related to your most recent piece on whether or not first-da...

Pilot Girl asks: Comment: I met a guy a few months ago through a friend. He's a little younger and works crazy hours in the investment banking industry. I ...

Confused asks: Comment: Hi.  About 6 years ago I met a man online when I was living in NYC.  We went out twice and had sex on the 2nd date.  I was not emoti...

Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks, which he initiated. We w...

Name: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few messages and then he as...

Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are emotionally unavailab...

Name: Katie Comment: As I near 30, having children become increasingly important to me. I've been dating my current boyfriend for 1.5 years. He is tall, h...

Full Name: Ellen Age: 42 Your Question: Hellloooo ladies! After 2 serious relationships in the last 3 years, I made the decision to date multiple men casuall...