How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
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Christan
- May 22, 2020
- 3 min
How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?
I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our...
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Christan
- May 20, 2020
- 3 min
How To Get More Messages On Dating Apps
So many of these people seem to say the same things. What should I look for to find someone who is more authentic/honest? Also, I tend...
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Christan
- May 10, 2020
- 5 min
Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing
When Patrick* messaged me mere minutes after I liked one of his photos, I knew something was off. It’s never been that easy. Usually, it...
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Christan
- Apr 29, 2020
- 2 min
Do Men Still Expect Women To Have Sex By The Third Date?
In the (barely) over 50 dating category, are women still "expected" to have sex with the guy on/following the 3rd date or the 3rd week...
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Christan
- Apr 26, 2020
- 3 min
Write Messages That Get You Dates
I mention a lot of things in my Tinder profile. I mention my work in trauma recovery; my dog walking, my love of yoga and wine. I even...
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Christan
- Apr 19, 2020
- 2 min
How Long Are Men Expected To Pay For Dates?
When dating, how many dates should the man offer to pay for all the dates. When is it okay to go Dutch? I want to say that things should...
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Christan
- Apr 12, 2020
- 3 min
Are Dating Apps Full of Men Just Looking For Sex?
Hi, prior to the virus pandemic I explored online dating without success. I have encountered that the quality of men on these sites is...
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Christan
- Apr 8, 2020
- 4 min
Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?
How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...
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Christan
- Apr 1, 2020
- 2 min
Dating Profile/Photo/Bio Writing & Review Online Workshop
MONDAY, APR 13 - 7PM $20 - Admission includes online discussion and e-guides about Mastering Dating Apps & Identifying Red Flags and...
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Christan
- Apr 1, 2020
- 4 min
Is He A Flake or A Scammer?
I've had a lot of bad online dating experiences and I'd be grateful for a perspective specific to them. I am a little picky about who I...
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Christan
- Mar 17, 2020
- 3 min
Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?
Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
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Christan
- Mar 9, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Breakups, Sex Talk & Why Men Are Splitting The Check
In this episode we talk about how social media has made breakups even worse, the way to handle unsolicited dating app sex talk and the...
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Christan
- Mar 4, 2020
- 6 min
Beware The First Date Flake
By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...
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Christan
- Mar 1, 2020
- 4 min
How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
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Christan
- Feb 20, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too
We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...
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Christan
- Feb 17, 2020
- 6 min
He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
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Christan
- Feb 10, 2020
- 0 min
Dating App Dog Whistles
There are certain terms people use in their bios that should be avoided.
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Christan
- Feb 6, 2020
- 4 min
Write A Dating App Bio That Gets You Dates
Anne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been...
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Christan
- Feb 3, 2020
- 1 min
It's Okay To Hope Against Hope
I still don't know what happened. He could have just ghosted me because he wasn't that interested or wasn't ready to meet or one of a...
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