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    F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition
    Christan
    • Oct 18, 2021
    • 1 min

    F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition

    Hold on to your butts. We go on a RANT about why women need to stop caring if men ghost after sex. It doesn't matter, ladies. Fuck that...
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    CouchGuy, Pervy Messages & Requests For Nude Pics
    Christan
    • Oct 7, 2021
    • 1 min

    CouchGuy, Pervy Messages & Requests For Nude Pics

    In this episode: 1. The #Couchguy viral video on Tik Tok and why it's another example of people getting off watching a woman be...
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    Has Online Dating Become Toxic?
    Christan
    • Dec 18, 2020
    • 1 min

    Has Online Dating Become Toxic?

    We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men...
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    Is He Married Or Just Not Interested?
    Christan
    • Dec 6, 2020
    • 2 min

    Is He Married Or Just Not Interested?

    So i have been seeing this guy for a month now. We have only been out twice. Once for coffee and once for lunch. Now he wants to meet...
    51 views0 comments
    Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You
    Christan
    • Nov 3, 2020
    • 4 min

    Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You

    You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....
    96 views0 comments
    How To Succeed At Online Dating
    Christan
    • Oct 9, 2020
    • 5 min

    How To Succeed At Online Dating

    After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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    Reasons Your Match Thinks You're A Creep
    Christan
    • Sep 27, 2020
    • 3 min

    Reasons Your Match Thinks You're A Creep

    And - YES - this applies to men and women. I met a nice guy seemingly online. He is professional, smart, good looking. But he keeps...
    70 views0 comments
    Why People Lie In Their Dating Profiles
    Christan
    • Aug 27, 2020
    • 4 min

    Why People Lie In Their Dating Profiles

    More from Reddit. Just joined Hinge a few weeks ago. This is the first guy who actually seems to want to take me on an actual date and...
    44 views0 comments
    Always Swipe Left On These Profiles
    Christan
    • Aug 16, 2020
    • 4 min

    Always Swipe Left On These Profiles

    Hi, I enjoyed most of your article about the signs that indicate “The #1 sign they’re only looking for sex!” The part I disagree with is...
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    The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex
    Christan
    • Aug 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex

    In my dating profile I say I'm looking for a long-term relationship but I still get emails from guys only looking to hook-up. How do I...
    58 views0 comments
    Awkward First Dates & Dating Younger Men
    Christan
    • Aug 6, 2020
    • 1 min

    Awkward First Dates & Dating Younger Men

    Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...
    53 views0 comments
    Tips To Stalker-Proof Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Aug 5, 2020
    • 5 min

    Tips To Stalker-Proof Your Dating Profile

    A woman recently posted this harrowing story about being stalked by a Tinder match. https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=160...
    81 views0 comments
    Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates
    Christan
    • Aug 2, 2020
    • 4 min

    Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates

    Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...
    68 views0 comments
    Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Jul 29, 2020
    • 3 min

    Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile

    I have been chatting with this guy on Match.com for awhile now and he does not want to meet in person till after the pandemic is over!...
    86 views0 comments
    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
    Christan
    • Jul 15, 2020
    • 5 min

    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost

    It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
    199 views0 comments
    Never Upgrade A First Date
    Christan
    • Jun 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Never Upgrade A First Date

    Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
    169 views0 comments
    Social Distance Dating Tips
    Christan
    • Jun 28, 2020
    • 5 min

    Social Distance Dating Tips

    I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
    117 views0 comments
    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
    Christan
    • Jun 24, 2020
    • 3 min

    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!

    Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little crib...
    181 views0 comments
    When Is It Okay To Talk Money?
    Christan
    • Jun 18, 2020
    • 2 min

    When Is It Okay To Talk Money?

    What do you make of someone revealing their financial problems after only a couple of dates? In general, talking finances that early on...
    83 views0 comments
    The Problem With "Preferences" In Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Jun 16, 2020
    • 3 min

    The Problem With "Preferences" In Your Dating Profile

    One of the things I am most grateful for during my time writing And That's Why You're Single is proverbial mirror certain readers would...
    153 views0 comments
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