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    F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition
    Christan
    • Oct 18, 2021
    • 1 min

    F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition

    Hold on to your butts. We go on a RANT about why women need to stop caring if men ghost after sex. It doesn't matter, ladies. Fuck that...
    31 views0 comments
    Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
    Christan
    • Jan 1, 2021
    • 1 min

    Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent

    We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...
    77 views0 comments
    Has Online Dating Become Toxic?
    Christan
    • Dec 18, 2020
    • 1 min

    Has Online Dating Become Toxic?

    We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men...
    65 views0 comments
    Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
    Christan
    • Sep 20, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question

    A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...
    39 views0 comments
    Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits
    Christan
    • Sep 13, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits

    This one's about figuring out your dating league and when to shoot out of it. We also talk about the dangers of dating a narcissist....
    31 views0 comments
    Awkward First Dates & Dating Younger Men
    Christan
    • Aug 6, 2020
    • 1 min

    Awkward First Dates & Dating Younger Men

    Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...
    53 views0 comments
    Anger, Emotional Affairs & Arm Penises
    Christan
    • Aug 4, 2020
    • 1 min

    Anger, Emotional Affairs & Arm Penises

    We're talking about emotional affairs, why women feel guilty about getting angry, a man who can't stop playing with his arm-penis and...
    59 views0 comments
    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020
    Christan
    • Jul 30, 2020
    • 1 min

    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020

    Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...
    49 views1 comment
    How To Love Online Dating Again
    Christan
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Love Online Dating Again

    I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
    104 views0 comments
    Fuck That Guy: Unsolved Mysteries Edition
    Christan
    • Jul 7, 2020
    • 1 min

    Fuck That Guy: Unsolved Mysteries Edition

    Put on your tin foil hat and pull up a chair. We're talking the mysterious death of Rey Rivera. His body plunged through the roof of a ...
    60 views0 comments
    The Mean Girl Myth
    Christan
    • May 6, 2020
    • 1 min

    The Mean Girl Myth

    What color crayon is your heart? We ask ourselves that as we delve into the intra-gender bullying and the Mean Girl Myth. Speaking of...
    71 views0 comments
    Dating Profile Snobbery
    Christan
    • Apr 23, 2020
    • 1 min

    Dating Profile Snobbery

    This week on our podcast's bonus episode, we talk about the importance some people place on education level and travel experience when...
    89 views0 comments
    Podcast - Weird Break-Ups, Zoom First Dates & Why You Keep Meeting Men Who "Just Want Sex"
    Christan
    • Apr 15, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Weird Break-Ups, Zoom First Dates & Why You Keep Meeting Men Who "Just Want Sex"

    We talk about getting dumped on Zoom aka "zumped", a man with the lamest excuse for breaking up with his girlfriend and why you keep...
    93 views0 comments
    Podcast Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex
    Christan
    • Mar 21, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast Men With Madonna/Dinner Whore Complex

    Ugh. First up, we talk about how one vindictive man tried to ruin the life of a female professor by falsely accusing her of sexual ...
    66 views0 comments
    Podcast - Breakups, Sex Talk & Why Men Are Splitting The Check
    Christan
    • Mar 9, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Breakups, Sex Talk & Why Men Are Splitting The Check

    In this episode we talk about how social media has made breakups even worse, the way to handle unsolicited dating app sex talk and the...
    77 views0 comments
    Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too
    Christan
    • Feb 20, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too

    We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...
    36 views0 comments
    Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes
    Christan
    • Feb 12, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes

    We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...
    73 views0 comments
    Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies
    Christan
    • Jan 17, 2020
    • 3 min

    Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies

    Linda asks: I've been texting and emailing with this guy I met online for over two months. We attempted to meet a few times, but he...
    88 views2 comments
    Can She Ever Fully Trust Her Boyfriend?
    Christan
    • Dec 31, 2019
    • 5 min

    Can She Ever Fully Trust Her Boyfriend?

    Barb asks: Two years ago, and a few months before we started dating, my boyfriend came very close to sleeping with a married friend....
    102 views1 comment
    Why Playing Hard To Get Never Works
    Christan
    • Dec 25, 2019
    • 3 min

    Why Playing Hard To Get Never Works

    Pilot Girl asks: Comment: I met a guy a few months ago through a friend. He's a little younger and works crazy hours in the investment...
    119 views2 comments

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