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    Statements Only: Avoid Matching With People That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time
    Christan
    • Oct 27, 2021
    • 1 min

    Statements Only: Avoid Matching With People That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time

    MASTER ONLINE DATING ONLINE COURSE With this self-paced online course you’ll learn how to make better matches, write more effective...
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    When He Unmatches You After The First Date
    Christan
    • Oct 24, 2021
    • 2 min

    When He Unmatches You After The First Date

    "Had a seemingly great first date. Came home and went to send him a thank you message and he'd already unmatched me. So confused as to...
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    CouchGuy, Pervy Messages & Requests For Nude Pics
    Christan
    • Oct 7, 2021
    • 1 min

    CouchGuy, Pervy Messages & Requests For Nude Pics

    In this episode: 1. The #Couchguy viral video on Tik Tok and why it's another example of people getting off watching a woman be...
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    Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign
    Christan
    • Feb 21, 2021
    • 2 min

    Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign

    When matching up on an app ; you chat and maybe talk on the phone - then the next day the “good morning “ texts start — what is...
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    Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
    Christan
    • Jan 1, 2021
    • 1 min

    Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent

    We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...
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    Has Online Dating Become Toxic?
    Christan
    • Dec 18, 2020
    • 1 min

    Has Online Dating Become Toxic?

    We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men...
    65 views0 comments
    One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps
    Christan
    • Dec 17, 2020
    • 1 min

    One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps

    This might sting a little bit. Learn how to fix the problem here:
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    How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message
    Christan
    • Nov 15, 2020
    • 2 min

    How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

    the percentage of replies you get on "introducing" yourself is very very small. Should you send a large number of "hello" type messages...
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    The Best Dating Sites & Apps For Singles Over 40
    Christan
    • Oct 18, 2020
    • 3 min

    The Best Dating Sites & Apps For Singles Over 40

    I have a question: In your opinion, what are the best online dating sites for 50+?  Or even 60+? I was on OurTime.com and it was...
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    How To Succeed At Online Dating
    Christan
    • Oct 9, 2020
    • 5 min

    How To Succeed At Online Dating

    After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
    89 views0 comments
    Never Do This With Your Bumble Match
    Christan
    • Sep 19, 2020
    • 5 min

    Never Do This With Your Bumble Match

    There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
    70 views0 comments
    How To Match With People You Find Attractive
    Christan
    • Sep 15, 2020
    • 5 min

    How To Match With People You Find Attractive

    Why is it that men on my dating sites (Elite and Match) who look non professional and have none of my interests the only ones who pick...
    73 views0 comments
    Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
    Christan
    • Aug 26, 2020
    • 5 min

    Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?

    Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...
    67 views0 comments
    Always Swipe Left On These Profiles
    Christan
    • Aug 16, 2020
    • 4 min

    Always Swipe Left On These Profiles

    Hi, I enjoyed most of your article about the signs that indicate “The #1 sign they’re only looking for sex!” The part I disagree with is...
    49 views0 comments
    The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex
    Christan
    • Aug 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex

    In my dating profile I say I'm looking for a long-term relationship but I still get emails from guys only looking to hook-up. How do I...
    58 views0 comments
    Tips To Stalker-Proof Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Aug 5, 2020
    • 5 min

    Tips To Stalker-Proof Your Dating Profile

    A woman recently posted this harrowing story about being stalked by a Tinder match. https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=160...
    81 views0 comments
    Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates
    Christan
    • Aug 2, 2020
    • 4 min

    Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates

    Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...
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    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020
    Christan
    • Jul 30, 2020
    • 1 min

    Dateology - Safe Sex In 2020

    Safe sex takes on a whole new meaning in 2020. Is there any point to dating during the pandemic? What about sex? Should singles fly solo...
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    Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Jul 29, 2020
    • 3 min

    Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile

    I have been chatting with this guy on Match.com for awhile now and he does not want to meet in person till after the pandemic is over!...
    86 views0 comments
    Sex And The City: COVID Edition
    Christan
    • Jul 27, 2020
    • 5 min

    Sex And The City: COVID Edition

    Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
    106 views0 comments
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