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    How Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?
    Christan
    • Jan 1, 2021
    • 3 min

    How Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?

    An ex I walked out on last Christmas reappeared via email asking if I’d be in town so that he can give me a gift he’d previously bought...
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    How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
    Christan
    • Jul 22, 2020
    • 4 min

    How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?

    I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
    94 views0 comments
    Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too
    Christan
    • Feb 20, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too

    We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...
    36 views0 comments
    He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
    Christan
    • Feb 17, 2020
    • 6 min

    He Can Be Both Victim And Villain

    In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
    119 views1 comment
    Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies
    Christan
    • Jan 17, 2020
    • 3 min

    Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies

    Linda asks: I've been texting and emailing with this guy I met online for over two months. We attempted to meet a few times, but he...
    88 views2 comments
    When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness
    Christan
    • Jan 8, 2020
    • 6 min

    When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness

    Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
    108 views1 comment
    Your Sexual History Is Nobody's Business
    Christan
    • Dec 10, 2019
    • 4 min

    Your Sexual History Is Nobody's Business

    Name: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few...
    171 views1 comment
    Signs They're Stringing You Along
    Christan
    • Nov 25, 2019
    • 10 min

    Signs They're Stringing You Along

    Alias Homegirl Comment: I apologize for the length of this, but I don't know if you can assess the situation without going into some...
    110 views0 comments
    How Do You Know If You're Settling?
    Christan
    • Nov 20, 2019
    • 5 min

    How Do You Know If You're Settling?

    Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused Comment: How do you reconcile the need to be attracted to your mate and not lowering your...
    54 views0 comments
    So You Dated a Narcissist. Now What?
    Christan
    • Nov 17, 2019
    • 4 min

    So You Dated a Narcissist. Now What?

    In many ways, the after-math of a relationship with a narcissist is just if not more damaging than the relationship itself. This is Part...
    77 views0 comments
    Are You Dating Mr. Golden Balls?
    Christan
    • Nov 17, 2019
    • 3 min

    Are You Dating Mr. Golden Balls?

    Name: Staci Comment: I met a guy on Tinder in his 40s who seemed to be well put together. He was a gentleman and very smart and...
    61 views0 comments

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