ChristanJan 1, 20213 minHow Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?An ex I walked out on last Christmas reappeared via email asking if I’d be in town so that he can give me a gift he’d previously bought...
ChristanJul 22, 20204 minHow Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
ChristanFeb 20, 20201 minPodcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, TooWe're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...
ChristanFeb 17, 20206 minHe Can Be Both Victim And VillainIn her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
ChristanJan 17, 20203 minPodcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddiesLinda asks: I've been texting and emailing with this guy I met online for over two months. We attempted to meet a few times, but he...
ChristanJan 8, 20206 minWhen And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental IllnessNicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
ChristanDec 10, 20194 minYour Sexual History Is Nobody's BusinessName: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few...
ChristanNov 25, 201910 minSigns They're Stringing You AlongAlias Homegirl Comment: I apologize for the length of this, but I don't know if you can assess the situation without going into some...
ChristanNov 20, 20195 minHow Do You Know If You're Settling?Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused Comment: How do you reconcile the need to be attracted to your mate and not lowering your...
ChristanNov 17, 20194 minSo You Dated a Narcissist. Now What?In many ways, the after-math of a relationship with a narcissist is just if not more damaging than the relationship itself. This is Part...
ChristanNov 17, 20193 minAre You Dating Mr. Golden Balls?Name: Staci Comment: I met a guy on Tinder in his 40s who seemed to be well put together. He was a gentleman and very smart and...