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    Statements Only: Avoid Matching With People That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time
    Christan
    • Oct 27, 2021
    • 1 min

    Statements Only: Avoid Matching With People That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time

    MASTER ONLINE DATING ONLINE COURSE With this self-paced online course you’ll learn how to make better matches, write more effective...
    65 views0 comments
    Always Swipe Left On These Profiles
    Christan
    • Aug 16, 2020
    • 4 min

    Always Swipe Left On These Profiles

    Hi, I enjoyed most of your article about the signs that indicate “The #1 sign they’re only looking for sex!” The part I disagree with is...
    49 views0 comments
    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
    Christan
    • Jul 15, 2020
    • 5 min

    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost

    It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
    199 views0 comments
    How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
    Christan
    • Jun 14, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less

    In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
    139 views0 comments
    How Do You Get Matches To Meet Offline?
    Christan
    • Jun 8, 2020
    • 2 min

    How Do You Get Matches To Meet Offline?

    From last week's Ask & Answer online session - (Attend the next one - RSVP here) I get matches on Tinder and Coffee Meets Bagel but all...
    72 views0 comments
    Is He A Flake or A Scammer?
    Christan
    • Apr 1, 2020
    • 4 min

    Is He A Flake or A Scammer?

    I've had a lot of bad online dating experiences and I'd be grateful for a perspective specific to them. I am a little picky about who I...
    105 views0 comments
    Beware The First Date Flake
    Christan
    • Mar 4, 2020
    • 6 min

    Beware The First Date Flake

    By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...
    210 views0 comments
    The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps
    Christan
    • Feb 27, 2020
    • 4 min

    The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps

    I'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something...
    187 views0 comments
    Why Playing Hard To Get Never Works
    Christan
    • Dec 25, 2019
    • 3 min

    Why Playing Hard To Get Never Works

    Pilot Girl asks: Comment: I met a guy a few months ago through a friend. He's a little younger and works crazy hours in the investment...
    119 views2 comments
    Signs They're Stringing You Along
    Christan
    • Nov 25, 2019
    • 10 min

    Signs They're Stringing You Along

    Alias Homegirl Comment: I apologize for the length of this, but I don't know if you can assess the situation without going into some...
    110 views0 comments
    Is He Jerking Her Around Or Just a Flake?
    Christan
    • Nov 20, 2019
    • 6 min

    Is He Jerking Her Around Or Just a Flake?

    Name: Katie Question: I go through phases where I use Tinder fairly actively, and then I get burned out and take breaks and start over....
    175 views0 comments

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