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Christan
- Jan 1, 2021
- 1 min
Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...
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Christan
- Dec 6, 2020
- 2 min
Is He Married Or Just Not Interested?
So i have been seeing this guy for a month now. We have only been out twice. Once for coffee and once for lunch. Now he wants to meet...
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Christan
- Nov 3, 2020
- 4 min
Common Reasons People Ghost or Unmatch You
You're messaging with someone on Bumble or OKCupid and then, out of nowhere, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Maybe....
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Christan
- Oct 22, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - First Date Fails, Bad Teeth & Disasterous Dating Advice
If you knew something about a friend's appearance was keeping them single, would you tell them? We discuss that and ways people set...
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Christan
- Sep 23, 2020
- 4 min
Signs Your Date Is Toxic
We'd been sitting at our corner two-top table for less than thirty minutes when it started. I could barely finish a sentence without him...
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Christan
- Sep 20, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Smug Couples, Awkward Break-Ups & Answers For That "Why Are You Single?" Question
A reader asks what she should do about being uninvited to events because she's single. Sarah and I also parse an essay by a man weirdly...
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Christan
- Sep 19, 2020
- 5 min
Never Do This With Your Bumble Match
There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
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Christan
- Sep 4, 2020
- 3 min
Is It Sexist To Expect Men To Pay For Dates?
Why is it that the vast majority of women still do not offer to pickup their share of the cost a date night out? Is that not sexism?...
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Christan
- Aug 6, 2020
- 1 min
Awkward First Dates & Dating Younger Men
Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...
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Christan
- Jul 29, 2020
- 3 min
Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile
I have been chatting with this guy on Match.com for awhile now and he does not want to meet in person till after the pandemic is over!...
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Christan
- Jul 15, 2020
- 5 min
Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
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Christan
- Jul 13, 2020
- 3 min
How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
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Christan
- Jul 8, 2020
- 4 min
Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
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Christan
- Jun 30, 2020
- 4 min
Never Upgrade A First Date
Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
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Christan
- Jun 28, 2020
- 5 min
Social Distance Dating Tips
I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
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Christan
- Jun 14, 2020
- 3 min
How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
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Christan
- Apr 29, 2020
- 2 min
Do Men Still Expect Women To Have Sex By The Third Date?
In the (barely) over 50 dating category, are women still "expected" to have sex with the guy on/following the 3rd date or the 3rd week...
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Christan
- Apr 19, 2020
- 2 min
How Long Are Men Expected To Pay For Dates?
When dating, how many dates should the man offer to pay for all the dates. When is it okay to go Dutch? I want to say that things should...
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Christan
- Apr 15, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Weird Break-Ups, Zoom First Dates & Why You Keep Meeting Men Who "Just Want Sex"
We talk about getting dumped on Zoom aka "zumped", a man with the lamest excuse for breaking up with his girlfriend and why you keep...
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