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    Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship
    Christan
    • Oct 8, 2021
    • 5 min

    Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship

    I had very little success in dating before 2020, but since the pandemic the amount of online dating users increased significantly and I...
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    Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits
    Christan
    • Sep 13, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Dating Leagues, Tinder Narcissists & Friends With Benefits

    This one's about figuring out your dating league and when to shoot out of it. We also talk about the dangers of dating a narcissist....
    31 views0 comments
    When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?
    Christan
    • Sep 8, 2020
    • 3 min

    When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?

    How soon should you mention that you are looking for something serious leading to marriage without sounding like you want to rush things...
    49 views0 comments
    The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married
    Christan
    • Sep 1, 2020
    • 4 min

    The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married

    Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...
    56 views0 comments
    How To Love Online Dating Again
    Christan
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Love Online Dating Again

    I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
    104 views0 comments
    Never Upgrade A First Date
    Christan
    • Jun 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Never Upgrade A First Date

    Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
    169 views0 comments
    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
    Christan
    • Jun 24, 2020
    • 3 min

    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!

    Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little crib...
    181 views0 comments
    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?
    Christan
    • Jun 22, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?

    How come I only seem to get approached by either physically or emotionally unavailable men?  The only 3 types that ever seem interested ...
    95 views0 comments
    How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?
    Christan
    • May 22, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?

    I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our...
    119 views0 comments
    How Does He Tell Her He Doesn't Want To Get Married?
    Christan
    • Mar 29, 2020
    • 4 min

    How Does He Tell Her He Doesn't Want To Get Married?

    I don't see so many postings here from men, but here goes. I've been dating my current girlfriend for six months now. Next month, we are...
    132 views1 comment
    Why Do Women Keep Dumping Him?
    Christan
    • Feb 23, 2020
    • 4 min

    Why Do Women Keep Dumping Him?

    Jay asks: I want to discuss a trend that I have noticed recently. I'll start with an actual example. First off (for background), I am 31...
    169 views2 comments
    Should You Tell Someone They Don't Look Like Their Photos?
    Christan
    • Jan 15, 2020
    • 3 min

    Should You Tell Someone They Don't Look Like Their Photos?

    What's the etiquette when you meet someone for the first time via an online dating website, and you can clearly see he or she is much...
    1,187 views2 comments
    Should Men Pay For Dates Because They Earn More?
    Christan
    • Jan 12, 2020
    • 3 min

    Should Men Pay For Dates Because They Earn More?

    Ah, yes. The "Who Pays?" question. But this time, we've put a little spin on it. The screen shots below are from an Instagram post...
    148 views1 comment
    How Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?
    Christan
    • Jan 10, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?

    I'm a 32-year-old man; I spent the majority of my 20s in a couple of long-term relationships and so never really got used to "dating."  ...
    206 views1 comment

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