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    Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship
    Christan
    • Oct 8, 2021
    • 5 min

    Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship

    I had very little success in dating before 2020, but since the pandemic the amount of online dating users increased significantly and I...
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    Traumatic Effects Of A Breakup
    Christan
    • Mar 21, 2021
    • 3 min

    Traumatic Effects Of A Breakup

    38 years old guy in my hometown found me on tinder as I was temporarily visiting home. I was ready for a hookup but instead he ...
    67 views0 comments
    Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
    Christan
    • Jan 1, 2021
    • 1 min

    Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent

    We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...
    77 views0 comments
    When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?
    Christan
    • Sep 8, 2020
    • 3 min

    When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?

    How soon should you mention that you are looking for something serious leading to marriage without sounding like you want to rush things...
    49 views0 comments
    Are You Someone's Dirty Little Secret?
    Christan
    • Aug 9, 2020
    • 4 min

    Are You Someone's Dirty Little Secret?

    An article in Refinery29 UK covers the latest dating phenomenon - stashing. If you're like me, you just stopped and asked yourself, "What...
    115 views0 comments
    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?
    Christan
    • Jun 22, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?

    How come I only seem to get approached by either physically or emotionally unavailable men?  The only 3 types that ever seem interested ...
    94 views0 comments
    How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?
    Christan
    • May 22, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Do You Date When You Don't Know What You Want?

    I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our...
    119 views0 comments
    Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?
    Christan
    • Apr 8, 2020
    • 4 min

    Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?

    How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...
    111 views0 comments
    I Have First Date Jitters
    Christan
    • Feb 19, 2020
    • 2 min

    I Have First Date Jitters

    I'm not a fan of the new Instagram trend of posting trashy dating app messages hoping to become an influencer. Most of those accounts are...
    91 views0 comments
    How To Avoid 
Dating App Ghosts & Flakes
    Christan
    • Jan 27, 2020
    • 7 min

    How To Avoid Dating App Ghosts & Flakes

    Laura asks: I'm relatively new to dating apps. Still navigating these waters mostly, but so far my experience seems to be pretty...
    261 views0 comments
    Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies
    Christan
    • Jan 17, 2020
    • 3 min

    Podcast - Unhealthy Dating Patterns, Cool Girl Syndrome & Rude F*ckbuddies

    Linda asks: I've been texting and emailing with this guy I met online for over two months. We attempted to meet a few times, but he...
    88 views2 comments
    Why Are We So Afraid Of Being Alone?
    Christan
    • Dec 22, 2019
    • 5 min

    Why Are We So Afraid Of Being Alone?

    Confused asks: Comment: Hi.  About 6 years ago I met a man online when I was living in NYC.  We went out twice and had sex on the 2nd...
    124 views0 comments
    What "Take It Slow" & "Friends First" Actually Means
    Christan
    • Dec 1, 2019
    • 3 min

    What "Take It Slow" & "Friends First" Actually Means

    Gena asks: I am new to dating apps and feeling very confused. I would appreciate any insights or advice that readers have. I have had...
    198 views0 comments
    Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?
    Christan
    • Nov 26, 2019
    • 3 min

    Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?

    Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are...
    144 views0 comments

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