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    The Best Dating Sites & Apps For Singles Over 40
    Christan
    • Oct 18, 2020
    • 3 min

    The Best Dating Sites & Apps For Singles Over 40

    I have a question: In your opinion, what are the best online dating sites for 50+?  Or even 60+? I was on OurTime.com and it was...
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    The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married
    Christan
    • Sep 1, 2020
    • 4 min

    The Stigma Of Being Over 40 & Never Married

    Hi there. As I get older, I am becoming more insecure in the dating scene. I'd like to have a family one day, but men seem to think...
    56 views0 comments
    Fuck That Guy: Unsolved Mysteries Edition
    Christan
    • Jul 7, 2020
    • 1 min

    Fuck That Guy: Unsolved Mysteries Edition

    Put on your tin foil hat and pull up a chair. We're talking the mysterious death of Rey Rivera. His body plunged through the roof of a ...
    60 views0 comments
    Never Upgrade A First Date
    Christan
    • Jun 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Never Upgrade A First Date

    Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
    169 views0 comments
    The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear
    Christan
    • May 13, 2020
    • 4 min

    The Uncomfortable Truth Many Singles Don't Want To Hear

    Ok Cupid says I have over 700 likes. Yet, none seem to have a paid membership where they can send me a message. They do send me profiles...
    205 views0 comments
    Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing
    Christan
    • May 10, 2020
    • 5 min

    Romance Scammer Red Flags You Might Be Missing

    When Patrick* messaged me mere minutes after I liked one of his photos, I knew something was off. It’s never been that easy. Usually, it...
    76 views0 comments
    Why Isn't He Making Any Effort?
    Christan
    • May 5, 2020
    • 4 min

    Why Isn't He Making Any Effort?

    I'm in my mid 50's and last year my husband left me for another woman after 13 years together. It was a terrible shock as I had no...
    173 views1 comment
    Do Men Still Expect Women To Have Sex By The Third Date?
    Christan
    • Apr 29, 2020
    • 2 min

    Do Men Still Expect Women To Have Sex By The Third Date?

    In the (barely) over 50 dating category, are women still "expected" to have sex with the guy on/following the 3rd date or the 3rd week...
    431 views0 comments
    Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?
    Christan
    • Apr 8, 2020
    • 4 min

    Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?

    How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...
    111 views0 comments
    I Have First Date Jitters
    Christan
    • Feb 19, 2020
    • 2 min

    I Have First Date Jitters

    I'm not a fan of the new Instagram trend of posting trashy dating app messages hoping to become an influencer. Most of those accounts are...
    91 views0 comments
    Should He Lie So He Can Date Younger Women?
    Christan
    • Jan 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Should He Lie So He Can Date Younger Women?

    TJ asks: I have a really quick question with almost no drama...if such a thing exists! I have been online dating off and on for about a...
    177 views0 comments
    Podcast - Meet Romance Scammer Derek Alldred
    Christan
    • Jan 20, 2020
    • 2 min

    Podcast - Meet Romance Scammer Derek Alldred

    "DL" ASKS: I’m a 52 year old male and have been single most of my life. My last relationship ended ten years ago. I have had zero luck...
    119 views2 comments
    Signs Of Dating Scammers You Might Be Missing
    Christan
    • Dec 19, 2019
    • 2 min

    Signs Of Dating Scammers You Might Be Missing

    Dating scams are at an all time high thanks to the never-ending amount of social media platforms and dating apps. Anywhere someone can...
    157 views1 comment

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