Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign
When matching up on an app ; you chat and maybe talk on the phone - then the next day the “good morning “ texts start — what is...
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Christan
- Jan 1, 2021
- 1 min
Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...
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Christan
- Dec 18, 2020
- 1 min
Has Online Dating Become Toxic?
We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men...
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Christan
- Dec 17, 2020
- 1 min
One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps
This might sting a little bit. Learn how to fix the problem here:
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Christan
- Oct 9, 2020
- 5 min
How To Succeed At Online Dating
After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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Christan
- Sep 15, 2020
- 5 min
How To Match With People You Find Attractive
Why is it that men on my dating sites (Elite and Match) who look non professional and have none of my interests the only ones who pick...
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Christan
- Aug 26, 2020
- 5 min
Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...
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Christan
- Aug 13, 2020
- 3 min
The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex
In my dating profile I say I'm looking for a long-term relationship but I still get emails from guys only looking to hook-up. How do I...
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Christan
- Jul 29, 2020
- 3 min
Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile
I have been chatting with this guy on Match.com for awhile now and he does not want to meet in person till after the pandemic is over!...
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Christan
- Jul 27, 2020
- 5 min
Sex And The City: COVID Edition
Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
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Christan
- Jul 20, 2020
- 4 min
Are Dating Apps Racist?
Hello, I live in New York. I am Muslim and pretty much I’m open to having a relationship with anyone from any culture and religion. But I...
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Christan
- Jul 15, 2020
- 5 min
Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
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Christan
- Jul 13, 2020
- 3 min
How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
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Christan
- Jul 6, 2020
- 3 min
How To Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out
What tips can you give to make our profiles stand out? In a world where people are swiping faster than they're brain can process an...
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Christan
- Jun 30, 2020
- 4 min
Never Upgrade A First Date
Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
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Christan
- Jun 28, 2020
- 5 min
Social Distance Dating Tips
I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
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Christan
- Jun 24, 2020
- 3 min
Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little crib...
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Christan
- Jun 22, 2020
- 3 min
How Come She Never Meets Available Men?
How come I only seem to get approached by either physically or emotionally unavailable men? The only 3 types that ever seem interested ...
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Christan
- Jun 16, 2020
- 3 min
The Problem With "Preferences" In Your Dating Profile
One of the things I am most grateful for during my time writing And That's Why You're Single is proverbial mirror certain readers would...
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Christan
- Jun 9, 2020
- 6 min
The Other Woman Is Not To Blame Because Your Man Sucks
Medium continues to serve up essays reeking of internalized misogyny with this latest pile of word vomit. Who is the Other Woman? I have...
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