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    Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign
    Christan
    • Feb 21, 2021
    • 2 min

    Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign

    When matching up on an app ; you chat and maybe talk on the phone - then the next day the “good morning “ texts start — what is...
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    Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
    Christan
    • Jan 1, 2021
    • 1 min

    Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent

    We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...
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    Has Online Dating Become Toxic?
    Christan
    • Dec 18, 2020
    • 1 min

    Has Online Dating Become Toxic?

    We dig in to the groundswell of negativity towards online dating that's spreading across the internet. Has COVID made it worse? Are men...
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    One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps
    Christan
    • Dec 17, 2020
    • 1 min

    One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps

    This might sting a little bit. Learn how to fix the problem here:
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    How To Succeed At Online Dating
    Christan
    • Oct 9, 2020
    • 5 min

    How To Succeed At Online Dating

    After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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    How To Match With People You Find Attractive
    Christan
    • Sep 15, 2020
    • 5 min

    How To Match With People You Find Attractive

    Why is it that men on my dating sites (Elite and Match) who look non professional and have none of my interests the only ones who pick...
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    Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?
    Christan
    • Aug 26, 2020
    • 5 min

    Why Do So Many Women Settle For Friends With Benefits?

    Here's an interesting Reddit post I thought would make for a good discussion. I read this subreddit regularly and a large percent of the...
    81 views0 comments
    The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex
    Christan
    • Aug 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    The #1 Sign They're Just Looking For Sex

    In my dating profile I say I'm looking for a long-term relationship but I still get emails from guys only looking to hook-up. How do I...
    58 views0 comments
    Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Jul 29, 2020
    • 3 min

    Ready To Social Distance Date? Update Your Dating Profile

    I have been chatting with this guy on Match.com for awhile now and he does not want to meet in person till after the pandemic is over!...
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    Sex And The City: COVID Edition
    Christan
    • Jul 27, 2020
    • 5 min

    Sex And The City: COVID Edition

    Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
    106 views0 comments
    Are Dating Apps Racist?
    Christan
    • Jul 20, 2020
    • 4 min

    Are Dating Apps Racist?

    Hello, I live in New York. I am Muslim and pretty much I’m open to having a relationship with anyone from any culture and religion. But I...
    125 views0 comments
    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
    Christan
    • Jul 15, 2020
    • 5 min

    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost

    It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
    200 views0 comments
    How To Love Online Dating Again
    Christan
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Love Online Dating Again

    I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
    104 views0 comments
    How To Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out
    Christan
    • Jul 6, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out

    What tips can you give to make our profiles stand out? In a world where people are swiping faster than they're brain can process an...
    78 views0 comments
    Never Upgrade A First Date
    Christan
    • Jun 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Never Upgrade A First Date

    Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
    169 views0 comments
    Social Distance Dating Tips
    Christan
    • Jun 28, 2020
    • 5 min

    Social Distance Dating Tips

    I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
    117 views0 comments
    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
    Christan
    • Jun 24, 2020
    • 3 min

    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!

    Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little crib...
    181 views0 comments
    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?
    Christan
    • Jun 22, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?

    How come I only seem to get approached by either physically or emotionally unavailable men?  The only 3 types that ever seem interested ...
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    The Problem With "Preferences" In Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Jun 16, 2020
    • 3 min

    The Problem With "Preferences" In Your Dating Profile

    One of the things I am most grateful for during my time writing And That's Why You're Single is proverbial mirror certain readers would...
    153 views0 comments
    The Other Woman Is Not To Blame Because Your Man Sucks
    Christan
    • Jun 9, 2020
    • 6 min

    The Other Woman Is Not To Blame Because Your Man Sucks

    Medium continues to serve up essays reeking of internalized misogyny with this latest pile of word vomit. Who is the Other Woman? I have...
    96 views0 comments
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