ChristanJun 6, 20214 minWhen Will Her Married Boyfriend Leave His Wife?I was a married and hooked up with a married man at a mutual friend’s party. No excuse-My husband was ten years older than me and we’d...
ChristanJan 18, 20213 minIs Her Situationship Keeping Her Single?Known this guy for 30 years,- best friends brother. he clears his schedule for me on weekends - night my choice - wines and dines - has...
ChristanJun 8, 20203 minWhat Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed...
ChristanApr 29, 20202 minDo Men Still Expect Women To Have Sex By The Third Date?In the (barely) over 50 dating category, are women still "expected" to have sex with the guy on/following the 3rd date or the 3rd week...
ChristanMar 19, 20205 minBeware The Relationship Re-BooterElizabeth asks: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me about a month ago and his reasons were... questionable. I mean, they made no...
ChristanFeb 6, 20204 minWrite A Dating App Bio That Gets You DatesAnne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been...
ChristanJan 30, 20204 minShould He Lie So He Can Date Younger Women?TJ asks: I have a really quick question with almost no drama...if such a thing exists! I have been online dating off and on for about a...
ChristanJan 27, 20207 minHow To Avoid Dating App Ghosts & FlakesLaura asks: I'm relatively new to dating apps. Still navigating these waters mostly, but so far my experience seems to be pretty...
ChristanJan 23, 20204 minThe Keys To Getting A Second DateMissy asks: I'm a attractive, slim, college educated, decent job, well dressed (I.e. feminine not showy) confident and modern woman who...
ChristanJan 21, 20204 minForget About Dating Apps. How Do You Approach Potential Matches In Real Life?Beth asks: 23 year female looking for an answer... So I’ve followed this site in and out and first off I like it’s female perspective....
ChristanJan 20, 20202 minPodcast - Meet Romance Scammer Derek Alldred"DL" ASKS: I’m a 52 year old male and have been single most of my life. My last relationship ended ten years ago. I have had zero luck...
ChristanJan 15, 20203 minShould You Tell Someone They Don't Look Like Their Photos? What's the etiquette when you meet someone for the first time via an online dating website, and you can clearly see he or she is much...
ChristanJan 10, 20203 minHow Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?I'm a 32-year-old man; I spent the majority of my 20s in a couple of long-term relationships and so never really got used to "dating." ...
ChristanJan 8, 20206 minWhen And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental IllnessNicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
ChristanJan 2, 20205 minIs He Just In It For The Sex?Nicole asks: I have a question about online dating and exclusivity that's sort of tangentially related to your most recent piece on...
ChristanDec 31, 20195 minCan She Ever Fully Trust Her Boyfriend?Barb asks: Two years ago, and a few months before we started dating, my boyfriend came very close to sleeping with a married friend....
ChristanDec 25, 20193 minWhy Playing Hard To Get Never WorksPilot Girl asks: Comment: I met a guy a few months ago through a friend. He's a little younger and works crazy hours in the investment...
ChristanDec 17, 20198 minHow To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too QuicklyNicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks,...
ChristanDec 15, 20198 minWhy Can't She Meet Any Hot Alpha Men Her Age?Rose asks: I'm a late bloomer who has enjoyed being single, but finally (in the past 3 to 4 years) truly desires a full fledged intimacy...
ChristanNov 26, 20193 minDo Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are...