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    Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?
    Christan
    • Mar 17, 2020
    • 3 min

    Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?

    Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
    163 views0 comments
    Write A Dating App Bio That Gets You Dates
    Christan
    • Feb 6, 2020
    • 4 min

    Write A Dating App Bio That Gets You Dates

    Anne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been...
    133 views0 comments
    Should He Lie So He Can Date Younger Women?
    Christan
    • Jan 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Should He Lie So He Can Date Younger Women?

    TJ asks: I have a really quick question with almost no drama...if such a thing exists! I have been online dating off and on for about a...
    177 views0 comments
    How To Avoid 
Dating App Ghosts & Flakes
    Christan
    • Jan 27, 2020
    • 7 min

    How To Avoid Dating App Ghosts & Flakes

    Laura asks: I'm relatively new to dating apps. Still navigating these waters mostly, but so far my experience seems to be pretty...
    265 views0 comments
    The Keys To Getting A Second Date
    Christan
    • Jan 23, 2020
    • 4 min

    The Keys To Getting A Second Date

    Missy asks: I'm a attractive, slim, college educated, decent job, well dressed (I.e. feminine not showy) confident and modern woman who...
    171 views0 comments
    Forget About Dating Apps. How Do You Approach Potential Matches In Real Life?
    Christan
    • Jan 21, 2020
    • 4 min

    Forget About Dating Apps. How Do You Approach Potential Matches In Real Life?

    Beth asks: 23 year female looking for an answer... So I’ve followed this site in and out and first off I like it’s female perspective....
    214 views0 comments
    Should You Tell Someone They Don't Look Like Their Photos?
    Christan
    • Jan 15, 2020
    • 3 min

    Should You Tell Someone They Don't Look Like Their Photos?

    What's the etiquette when you meet someone for the first time via an online dating website, and you can clearly see he or she is much...
    1,187 views2 comments
    How Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?
    Christan
    • Jan 10, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?

    I'm a 32-year-old man; I spent the majority of my 20s in a couple of long-term relationships and so never really got used to "dating."  ...
    206 views1 comment
    When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness
    Christan
    • Jan 8, 2020
    • 6 min

    When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness

    Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
    112 views1 comment
    Why Playing Hard To Get Never Works
    Christan
    • Dec 25, 2019
    • 3 min

    Why Playing Hard To Get Never Works

    Pilot Girl asks: Comment: I met a guy a few months ago through a friend. He's a little younger and works crazy hours in the investment...
    119 views2 comments
    Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?
    Christan
    • Nov 26, 2019
    • 3 min

    Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?

    Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are...
    144 views0 comments
    Should You Tell Someone You've Never Had a Relationship?
    Christan
    • Nov 24, 2019
    • 4 min

    Should You Tell Someone You've Never Had a Relationship?

    Tim asks: I am 28 years old and have a very strange problem:  I've never dated more than one or two dates with anyone.  The reason for...
    208 views1 comment

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