• Home

  • Get Dating Advice

  • Podcast

  • Online Dating Advice

  • About

    • Contact
    • FAQ
  • Events

    • NYC Events
    • DC Events
    • Boston Events
  • Online Speed Dating

    • How Online Speed Dating Works
    • Boston Online Speed Dating Events
    • NYC Online Speed Dating Events
  • Blog

  • More

    Use tab to navigate through the menu items.
    • All Posts
    • Dating
    • Dating At Work
    • Sex
    • Cheaters
    • Relationships
    • Dating Advice For Women
    • Self-Esteen
    • Dating Advice
    • Career
    • Online Dating
    • Dating Frustration
    • Dating Apps
    • Red Flags
    • Narcissitic Abuse
    • Abuse
    • Flakes
    • First Dates
    • Sex
    • Boundaries
    • Trauma
    • Dating Advice For Men
    • Dating Advice
    • Emotionally Unavailable
    • Code Words
    • Aging
    • Standards
    • Attachment
    • Scammers
    • Dating Over 40
    • Loneliness
    Search
    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?
    Christan
    • Jun 22, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Come She Never Meets Available Men?

    How come I only seem to get approached by either physically or emotionally unavailable men?  The only 3 types that ever seem interested ...
    94 views0 comments
    Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes
    Christan
    • Feb 12, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes

    We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...
    73 views0 comments
    Forget About Dating Apps. How Do You Approach Potential Matches In Real Life?
    Christan
    • Jan 21, 2020
    • 4 min

    Forget About Dating Apps. How Do You Approach Potential Matches In Real Life?

    Beth asks: 23 year female looking for an answer... So I’ve followed this site in and out and first off I like it’s female perspective....
    214 views0 comments
    Should Men Pay For Dates Because They Earn More?
    Christan
    • Jan 12, 2020
    • 3 min

    Should Men Pay For Dates Because They Earn More?

    Ah, yes. The "Who Pays?" question. But this time, we've put a little spin on it. The screen shots below are from an Instagram post...
    148 views1 comment
    Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?
    Christan
    • Nov 26, 2019
    • 3 min

    Do Emotionally Unavailable People Ever Commit?

    Hi, I have a question about unavailable men. Some of my exes and nearly all of the men I've tried to be in a relationship with were/are...
    144 views0 comments
    Signs They're Stringing You Along
    Christan
    • Nov 25, 2019
    • 10 min

    Signs They're Stringing You Along

    Alias Homegirl Comment: I apologize for the length of this, but I don't know if you can assess the situation without going into some...
    110 views0 comments

    Subscribe Now

    Stay in Style

    hello@buffsandbrainiacs.com

    • Twitter
    • Instagram

    © 2023 by BuffsandBrainiacs.com. Proudly created with Wix.com