Let's first address the obvious: is it possible he just happened to start dating someone at the exact same time as we matched? YES. That's how fast the proce...

By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social butterfly. So why do so...

Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually engaging in polite g...

I'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something I've noticed all too...

We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past dates; toxic boyfri...

In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being told repeatedly to ...

Bella asks: I've been dating this guy for a few weeks (our last date was Saturday - our fifth date) and wanted to get your perspective on whether or not I'...

There are certain terms people use in their bios that should be avoided.

Anne asks: I’ve been on the Bumble app and the OkCupid all for over seven months and I loathe them. All of my Bumble dates have been nightmares, and OkCupi...

TJ asks: I have a really quick question with almost no drama...if such a thing exists! I have been online dating off and on for about a year and a half now....

Missy asks: I'm a attractive, slim, college educated, decent job, well dressed (I.e. feminine not showy) confident and modern woman who can't get a second ...

Nicole asks: I have a question about online dating and exclusivity that's sort of tangentially related to your most recent piece on whether or not first-da...

Pilot Girl asks: Comment: I met a guy a few months ago through a friend. He's a little younger and works crazy hours in the investment banking industry. I ...

Rose asks: I'm a late bloomer who has enjoyed being single, but finally (in the past 3 to 4 years) truly desires a full fledged intimacy with the right man...

Name: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few messages and then he as...

Niru asks: I have gone on several maybe 10+ of your speed dating events in Boston and have received only 1 match, which did not progress. At this point I am ...

Holiday season is upon us and many singles are hoping to find someone special. If that's you and you've been using dating apps like Tinder & Bumble with no l...

Gena asks: I am new to dating apps and feeling very confused. I would appreciate any insights or advice that readers have. I have had 1-2 dates with 3 men w...

Tim asks: I am 28 years old and have a very strange problem:  I've never dated more than one or two dates with anyone.  The reason for this has been that I...

Alias BostonGal Comment: I recently moved to the Boston area and was looking to meet new guys. Around the time I moved, Tinder because the talk of the town,...