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    Statements Only: Avoid Matching With People That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time
    Christan
    • Oct 27, 2021
    • 1 min

    Statements Only: Avoid Matching With People That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time

    MASTER ONLINE DATING ONLINE COURSE With this self-paced online course you’ll learn how to make better matches, write more effective...
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    One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps
    Christan
    • Dec 17, 2020
    • 1 min

    One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps

    This might sting a little bit. Learn how to fix the problem here:
    56 views0 comments
    How To Succeed At Online Dating
    Christan
    • Oct 9, 2020
    • 5 min

    How To Succeed At Online Dating

    After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
    Christan
    • Jul 15, 2020
    • 5 min

    Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost

    It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
    199 views0 comments
    How To Love Online Dating Again
    Christan
    • Jul 13, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Love Online Dating Again

    I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
    104 views0 comments
    Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
    Christan
    • Jul 8, 2020
    • 4 min

    Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?

    I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
    197 views0 comments
    How To Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out
    Christan
    • Jul 6, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out

    What tips can you give to make our profiles stand out? In a world where people are swiping faster than they're brain can process an...
    75 views0 comments
    Never Upgrade A First Date
    Christan
    • Jun 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Never Upgrade A First Date

    Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
    169 views0 comments
    Social Distance Dating Tips
    Christan
    • Jun 28, 2020
    • 5 min

    Social Distance Dating Tips

    I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
    117 views0 comments
    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
    Christan
    • Jun 24, 2020
    • 3 min

    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!

    Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little crib...
    181 views0 comments
    When Is It Okay To Talk Money?
    Christan
    • Jun 18, 2020
    • 2 min

    When Is It Okay To Talk Money?

    What do you make of someone revealing their financial problems after only a couple of dates? In general, talking finances that early on...
    83 views0 comments
    How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
    Christan
    • Jun 14, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less

    In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
    139 views0 comments
    How Do You Get Matches To Meet Offline?
    Christan
    • Jun 8, 2020
    • 2 min

    How Do You Get Matches To Meet Offline?

    From last week's Ask & Answer online session - (Attend the next one - RSVP here) I get matches on Tinder and Coffee Meets Bagel but all...
    72 views0 comments
    What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?
    Christan
    • Jun 8, 2020
    • 3 min

    What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?

    What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed...
    120 views0 comments
    Why Isn't He Making Any Effort?
    Christan
    • May 5, 2020
    • 4 min

    Why Isn't He Making Any Effort?

    I'm in my mid 50's and last year my husband left me for another woman after 13 years together. It was a terrible shock as I had no...
    173 views1 comment
    Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?
    Christan
    • Apr 8, 2020
    • 4 min

    Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?

    How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...
    111 views0 comments
    A Case For Ghosting
    Christan
    • Mar 8, 2020
    • 2 min

    A Case For Ghosting

    Let's first address the obvious: is it possible he just happened to start dating someone at the exact same time as we matched? YES....
    147 views0 comments
    Beware The First Date Flake
    Christan
    • Mar 4, 2020
    • 6 min

    Beware The First Date Flake

    By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...
    210 views0 comments
    How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
    Christan
    • Mar 1, 2020
    • 4 min

    How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk

    Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
    137 views0 comments
    The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps
    Christan
    • Feb 27, 2020
    • 4 min

    The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps

    I'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something...
    187 views0 comments
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