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Christan
- Dec 17, 2020
- 1 min
One Reason You're Not Getting More Matches On Dating Apps
This might sting a little bit. Learn how to fix the problem here:
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Christan
- Oct 9, 2020
- 5 min
How To Succeed At Online Dating
After spending the weekend swiping through Tik Tok and listening to people complain about their bad dates, I started compiling a list of...
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Christan
- Jul 15, 2020
- 5 min
Signs Your Date Is Going To Ghost
It's happened to all of us. We make a match, we message, we make plans. Then...nothing. We learn they've unmatched us on Tinder or...
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Christan
- Jul 13, 2020
- 3 min
How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
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Christan
- Jul 8, 2020
- 4 min
Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
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Christan
- Jul 6, 2020
- 3 min
How To Make Your Dating Profile Stand Out
What tips can you give to make our profiles stand out? In a world where people are swiping faster than they're brain can process an...
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Christan
- Jun 30, 2020
- 4 min
Never Upgrade A First Date
Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
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Christan
- Jun 28, 2020
- 5 min
Social Distance Dating Tips
I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
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Christan
- Jun 24, 2020
- 3 min
Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little crib...
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Christan
- Jun 18, 2020
- 2 min
When Is It Okay To Talk Money?
What do you make of someone revealing their financial problems after only a couple of dates? In general, talking finances that early on...
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Christan
- Jun 14, 2020
- 3 min
How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
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Christan
- Jun 8, 2020
- 2 min
How Do You Get Matches To Meet Offline?
From last week's Ask & Answer online session - (Attend the next one - RSVP here) I get matches on Tinder and Coffee Meets Bagel but all...
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Christan
- Jun 7, 2020
- 3 min
What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?
What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed...
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Christan
- May 5, 2020
- 4 min
Why Isn't He Making Any Effort?
I'm in my mid 50's and last year my husband left me for another woman after 13 years together. It was a terrible shock as I had no...
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Christan
- Apr 8, 2020
- 4 min
Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?
How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...
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Christan
- Mar 8, 2020
- 2 min
A Case For Ghosting
Let's first address the obvious: is it possible he just happened to start dating someone at the exact same time as we matched? YES....
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Christan
- Mar 4, 2020
- 6 min
Beware The First Date Flake
By all accounts, Emma is a catch. She’s funny, kind, and attractive. She works a job she loves and is described by many as a social...
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Christan
- Mar 1, 2020
- 4 min
How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
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Christan
- Feb 27, 2020
- 4 min
The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps
I'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something...
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