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    How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message
    Christan
    • Nov 15, 2020
    • 2 min

    How To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Message

    the percentage of replies you get on "introducing" yourself is very very small. Should you send a large number of "hello" type messages...
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    Never Do This With Your Bumble Match
    Christan
    • Sep 19, 2020
    • 5 min

    Never Do This With Your Bumble Match

    There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
    70 views0 comments
    Are You Someone's Dirty Little Secret?
    Christan
    • Aug 9, 2020
    • 4 min

    Are You Someone's Dirty Little Secret?

    An article in Refinery29 UK covers the latest dating phenomenon - stashing. If you're like me, you just stopped and asked yourself, "What...
    115 views0 comments
    Awkward First Dates & Dating Younger Men
    Christan
    • Aug 6, 2020
    • 1 min

    Awkward First Dates & Dating Younger Men

    Why do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...
    53 views0 comments
    Sex And The City: COVID Edition
    Christan
    • Jul 27, 2020
    • 5 min

    Sex And The City: COVID Edition

    Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
    106 views0 comments
    Never Upgrade A First Date
    Christan
    • Jun 30, 2020
    • 4 min

    Never Upgrade A First Date

    Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
    169 views0 comments
    How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less
    Christan
    • Jun 14, 2020
    • 3 min

    How To Make Dating Apps Suck Less

    In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
    139 views0 comments
    The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps
    Christan
    • Feb 27, 2020
    • 4 min

    The #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating Apps

    I'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something...
    187 views0 comments
    How Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?
    Christan
    • Jan 10, 2020
    • 3 min

    How Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?

    I'm a 32-year-old man; I spent the majority of my 20s in a couple of long-term relationships and so never really got used to "dating."  ...
    206 views1 comment
    Is He Just In It For The Sex?
    Christan
    • Jan 2, 2020
    • 5 min

    Is He Just In It For The Sex?

    Nicole asks: I have a question about online dating and exclusivity that's sort of tangentially related to your most recent piece on...
    115 views1 comment

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