ChristanNov 15, 20202 minHow To Get Your Match To Respond To Your Messagethe percentage of replies you get on "introducing" yourself is very very small. Should you send a large number of "hello" type messages...
ChristanSep 19, 20205 minNever Do This With Your Bumble MatchThere I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
ChristanAug 9, 20204 minAre You Someone's Dirty Little Secret?An article in Refinery29 UK covers the latest dating phenomenon - stashing. If you're like me, you just stopped and asked yourself, "What...
ChristanAug 6, 20201 minAwkward First Dates & Dating Younger MenWhy do people have to ruin a perfectly good Zoom date by being creepy? Get tips on how to navigate those awkward on and offline date...
ChristanJul 27, 20205 minSex And The City: COVID EditionHi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
ChristanJun 30, 20204 minNever Upgrade A First DatePhotos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should...
ChristanJun 14, 20203 minHow To Make Dating Apps Suck LessIn a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from...
ChristanFeb 27, 20204 minThe #1 Reason You're Not Getting Dates With Dating AppsI'm no stranger to dating apps and know it's best to keep general expectations low, especially when it comes to manners, but something...
ChristanJan 10, 20203 minHow Long Can He Keep Stringing Her Along?I'm a 32-year-old man; I spent the majority of my 20s in a couple of long-term relationships and so never really got used to "dating." ...
ChristanJan 2, 20205 minIs He Just In It For The Sex?Nicole asks: I have a question about online dating and exclusivity that's sort of tangentially related to your most recent piece on...