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    Reasons Your Match Thinks You're A Creep
    Christan
    • Sep 27, 2020
    • 3 min

    Reasons Your Match Thinks You're A Creep

    And - YES - this applies to men and women. I met a nice guy seemingly online. He is professional, smart, good looking. But he keeps...
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    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!
    Christan
    • Jun 24, 2020
    • 3 min

    Delete These Lines From Your Dating Profile ASAP!

    Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little crib...
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    The Problem With "Preferences" In Your Dating Profile
    Christan
    • Jun 16, 2020
    • 3 min

    The Problem With "Preferences" In Your Dating Profile

    One of the things I am most grateful for during my time writing And That's Why You're Single is proverbial mirror certain readers would...
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    What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?
    Christan
    • Jun 8, 2020
    • 3 min

    What Does "Intimidating" Really Mean?

    What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed...
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    Including Disclaimers & Deal Breakers In Dating Profiles
    Christan
    • May 28, 2020
    • 5 min

    Including Disclaimers & Deal Breakers In Dating Profiles

    Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
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    Signs Of Dating Scammers You Might Be Missing
    Christan
    • Dec 19, 2019
    • 2 min

    Signs Of Dating Scammers You Might Be Missing

    Dating scams are at an all time high thanks to the never-ending amount of social media platforms and dating apps. Anywhere someone can...
    157 views1 comment
    What "Take It Slow" & "Friends First" Actually Means
    Christan
    • Dec 1, 2019
    • 3 min

    What "Take It Slow" & "Friends First" Actually Means

    Gena asks: I am new to dating apps and feeling very confused. I would appreciate any insights or advice that readers have. I have had...
    198 views0 comments

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