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    When Will Her Married Boyfriend Leave His Wife?
    Christan
    • Jun 6, 2021
    • 4 min

    When Will Her Married Boyfriend Leave His Wife?

    I was a married and hooked up with a married man at a mutual friend’s party. No excuse-My husband was ten years older than me and we’d...
    69 views0 comments
    Is He Hiding A Secret Life?
    Christan
    • Dec 30, 2020
    • 3 min

    Is He Hiding A Secret Life?

    Saw you on tiktok and wanted to reach out. I’m having some issues dealing with my boyfriend’s handling or lack there of when it comes to...
    28 views0 comments
    Is He Married Or Just Not Interested?
    Christan
    • Dec 6, 2020
    • 2 min

    Is He Married Or Just Not Interested?

    So i have been seeing this guy for a month now. We have only been out twice. Once for coffee and once for lunch. Now he wants to meet...
    51 views0 comments
    Anger, Emotional Affairs & Arm Penises
    Christan
    • Aug 4, 2020
    • 1 min

    Anger, Emotional Affairs & Arm Penises

    We're talking about emotional affairs, why women feel guilty about getting angry, a man who can't stop playing with his arm-penis and...
    59 views0 comments
    The Other Woman Is Not To Blame Because Your Man Sucks
    Christan
    • Jun 9, 2020
    • 6 min

    The Other Woman Is Not To Blame Because Your Man Sucks

    Medium continues to serve up essays reeking of internalized misogyny with this latest pile of word vomit. Who is the Other Woman? I have...
    95 views0 comments
    Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes
    Christan
    • Feb 12, 2020
    • 1 min

    Podcast - Sex Cults, Performative White Feminism, Tinder Triggers & Obsessed Exes

    We're talking sex cults, obsessed exes, performative white feminism and no-sex ghosting. Also discussed are my Tinder-triggered panic...
    73 views0 comments
    Podcast - Meet Romance Scammer Derek Alldred
    Christan
    • Jan 20, 2020
    • 2 min

    Podcast - Meet Romance Scammer Derek Alldred

    "DL" ASKS: I’m a 52 year old male and have been single most of my life. My last relationship ended ten years ago. I have had zero luck...
    119 views2 comments
    Can She Ever Fully Trust Her Boyfriend?
    Christan
    • Dec 31, 2019
    • 5 min

    Can She Ever Fully Trust Her Boyfriend?

    Barb asks: Two years ago, and a few months before we started dating, my boyfriend came very close to sleeping with a married friend....
    102 views1 comment
    Should She Stop Sleeping With Her Co-worker?
    Christan
    • Nov 17, 2019
    • 3 min

    Should She Stop Sleeping With Her Co-worker?

    Name: Leyna Question: I am a straight woman who is fuck buddies with my hot, younger male coworker (30). The sexual tension between us...
    212 views1 comment

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