Traumatic Effects Of A Breakup
38 years old guy in my hometown found me on tinder as I was temporarily visiting home. I was ready for a hookup but instead he ...
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Christan
- Jan 1, 2021
- 1 min
Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried...
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Christan
- Sep 27, 2020
- 3 min
Reasons Your Match Thinks You're A Creep
And - YES - this applies to men and women. I met a nice guy seemingly online. He is professional, smart, good looking. But he keeps...
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Christan
- Sep 23, 2020
- 4 min
Signs Your Date Is Toxic
We'd been sitting at our corner two-top table for less than thirty minutes when it started. I could barely finish a sentence without him...
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Christan
- Sep 19, 2020
- 5 min
Never Do This With Your Bumble Match
There I was, innocently sipping my iced coffee, my gorgeous pitt bull snoring at my feet, when I saw this headline. She Ended Things...
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Christan
- Sep 8, 2020
- 3 min
When Do You Tell Them You're Looking For Something Serious?
How soon should you mention that you are looking for something serious leading to marriage without sounding like you want to rush things...
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Christan
- Aug 4, 2020
- 5 min
Tips To Stalker-Proof Your Dating Profile
A woman recently posted this harrowing story about being stalked by a Tinder match. https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=160...
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Christan
- Aug 2, 2020
- 4 min
Let's Talk Awkward Zoom Dates
Question: Matched with a guy on Hinge. We set up a time to chat on Zoom. Not five minutes after he shows up than he starts to get...
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Christan
- Jul 27, 2020
- 5 min
Sex And The City: COVID Edition
Hi Christan, You may remember me from a few months back. I was on one of your dating profile workshops and then participated on a...
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Christan
- Jul 22, 2020
- 4 min
How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
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Christan
- Jul 13, 2020
- 3 min
How To Love Online Dating Again
I've been doing online dating on and off for about 3 years now, with NO success! My question is, how do you deal with online dating...
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Christan
- Jul 8, 2020
- 4 min
Is Dating Easier If You're Thin & Hot?
I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it...
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Christan
- Jun 28, 2020
- 5 min
Social Distance Dating Tips
I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. ...
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Christan
- Jun 18, 2020
- 2 min
When Is It Okay To Talk Money?
What do you make of someone revealing their financial problems after only a couple of dates? In general, talking finances that early on...
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Christan
- May 28, 2020
- 5 min
Including Disclaimers & Deal Breakers In Dating Profiles
Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm...
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Christan
- Apr 29, 2020
- 2 min
Do Men Still Expect Women To Have Sex By The Third Date?
In the (barely) over 50 dating category, are women still "expected" to have sex with the guy on/following the 3rd date or the 3rd week...
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Christan
- Apr 8, 2020
- 4 min
Should She Start Dating If She's Not Divorced Yet?
How to begin doing online dating when you are separated. Relationship with soon to be ex is still friendly & supportive. Difficulty in ...
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Christan
- Mar 19, 2020
- 5 min
Beware The Relationship Re-Booter
Elizabeth asks: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me about a month ago and his reasons were... questionable. I mean, they made no...
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Christan
- Mar 17, 2020
- 3 min
Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?
Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
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Christan
- Mar 1, 2020
- 4 min
How To Stop Creepy Dating App Sex Talk
Maureen asks: I'm beginning to look at dating five years ago as "the heyday of on online dating". Back then, people were mostly actually...
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