ChristanJan 1, 20213 minHow Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?An ex I walked out on last Christmas reappeared via email asking if I’d be in town so that he can give me a gift he’d previously bought...
ChristanAug 4, 20201 minAnger, Emotional Affairs & Arm PenisesWe're talking about emotional affairs, why women feel guilty about getting angry, a man who can't stop playing with his arm-penis and...
ChristanJul 22, 20204 minHow Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
ChristanMar 17, 20203 minWhy Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
ChristanFeb 20, 20201 minPodcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, TooWe're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...
ChristanFeb 17, 20206 minHe Can Be Both Victim And VillainIn her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
ChristanJan 8, 20206 minWhen And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental IllnessNicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
ChristanDec 17, 20198 minHow To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too QuicklyNicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks,...
ChristanDec 10, 20194 minYour Sexual History Is Nobody's BusinessName: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few...
ChristanNov 20, 20195 minHow Do You Know If You're Settling?Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused Comment: How do you reconcile the need to be attracted to your mate and not lowering your...
ChristanNov 17, 20194 minSo You Dated a Narcissist. Now What?In many ways, the after-math of a relationship with a narcissist is just if not more damaging than the relationship itself. This is Part...