How Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?
An ex I walked out on last Christmas reappeared via email asking if I’d be in town so that he can give me a gift he’d previously bought...
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Christan
- Aug 4, 2020
- 1 min
Anger, Emotional Affairs & Arm Penises
We're talking about emotional affairs, why women feel guilty about getting angry, a man who can't stop playing with his arm-penis and...
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Christan
- Jul 22, 2020
- 4 min
How Do You Find A Relationship If You've Never Had One?
I'm at the risk of becoming a 40-Year Old Virgin in a few years. My dating history is non-existant, and even in date settings I have...
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Christan
- Mar 17, 2020
- 3 min
Why Do Women Sleep With Other Men But Not Him?
Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!)...
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Christan
- Feb 20, 2020
- 1 min
Podcast - Men Can Be Drama Queens, Too
We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past...
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Christan
- Feb 17, 2020
- 6 min
He Can Be Both Victim And Villain
In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being...
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Christan
- Jan 8, 2020
- 6 min
When And How To Disclose Trauma, Abuse & Mental Illness
Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's...
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Christan
- Dec 17, 2019
- 8 min
How To Avoid Getting Too Attached, Too Quickly
Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks,...
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Christan
- Dec 10, 2019
- 4 min
Your Sexual History Is Nobody's Business
Name: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few...
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Christan
- Nov 20, 2019
- 5 min
How Do You Know If You're Settling?
Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused Comment: How do you reconcile the need to be attracted to your mate and not lowering your...
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Christan
- Nov 17, 2019
- 4 min
So You Dated a Narcissist. Now What?
In many ways, the after-math of a relationship with a narcissist is just if not more damaging than the relationship itself. This is Part...
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