Kevin asks: I have met 40-year-old women who are tentative about kissing after dinner or drinks at my place on the second or third (!) date.  They worry th...

We're talking why men aren't called out more for being gold-diggers or attention whores; why you should never "High Fidelity" your past dates; toxic boyfri...

In her recent Medium essay, writer Kelly Eden details her experience with a woman who contacted her fiancee for two years despite being told repeatedly to ...

Nicole asks: I’ve struggled with chronic depression/anxiety on and off for 10 years and have been aggressively treating it, but it's never completely rec...

Nicole asks: A 47 yo recently contacted me on Bumble, and we proceeded to have long, intense conversations over the next two weeks, which he initiated. We w...

Name: Audrey Message: Hi Christan And Sara, Over a week ago I matched with a guy on Bumble, we’ll call him Conner. We exchanged a few messages and then he as...

Alias (DO NOT USE A REAL NAME!!): Confused Comment: How do you reconcile the need to be attracted to your mate and not lowering your self-esteem by dating...

In many ways, the after-math of a relationship with a narcissist is just if not more damaging than the relationship itself. This is Part 1 of my series call...