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Christan
- Jan 7
- 3 min
Did She Scare Him Off Or Was He Always Going To Leave?
I started dating this guy I met on Hinge in the beginning of October. He worked in another city a few hours away, but he often came home for weeks on end close to where I live. We had three great dates, and then his father suddenly died. I assumed he would withdraw, but he continued to talk to me every day and open up about his feelings/ask for advice even when he returned to his city. We both expressed that we only date one person at a time. Our conversations got deeper as t
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Christan
- Jan 1
- 3 min
How Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?
An ex I walked out on last Christmas reappeared via email asking if I’d be in town so that he can give me a gift he’d previously bought me. I was pleasant, said I wasn’t coming to town but my stomach immediately knotted up. He’s bad for me. How do we move on from ex-loves who still have power to hurt us? One thing that makes break-ups so difficult is that we have a tendency to encode (aka save and store) the more pleasant memories and repress the unhappy ones. When we're feel
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Christan
- Jan 1
- 1 min
Sketchy Boyfriends, Lazy Dating Behavior & Dating A Single Parent
We're talking bare-minimum dating and why so many singles have stopped trying to impress their matches. Plus, a woman writes in worried if she's being stalked by her man's ex. Also listen as we discuss why childless singles struggle to date partners with kids. Master Online Dating Online Courses dateologycoach.thinkific.com/ How do I (30F) balance the amount of effort I put into OLD in a culture of extremely low effort dating? www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirt…_of_effort_i_
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