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    He Ghosted Her After Hooking Up On NYE
    Christan
    • Jan 11
    • 1 min

    He Ghosted Her After Hooking Up On NYE

    IN THE FULL EPISODE: We talk about how men are like velociraptors and duffel bags The real reason most people talk about their love of...
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    How To Stop A F*ckboy In His Tracks
    Christan
    • Dec 9, 2021
    • 1 min

    How To Stop A F*ckboy In His Tracks

    THE HIGHLIGHTS: Listen to a guy whip up a bogus word salad excuse for keeping a woman on the hook so he can continue to get laid. How to...
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    Statements Only: Avoid Matching With People That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time
    Christan
    • Oct 27, 2021
    • 1 min

    Statements Only: Avoid Matching With People That Will Ghost or Waste Your Time

    MASTER ONLINE DATING ONLINE COURSE With this self-paced online course you’ll learn how to make better matches, write more effective...
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    When He Unmatches You After The First Date
    Christan
    • Oct 24, 2021
    • 2 min

    When He Unmatches You After The First Date

    "Had a seemingly great first date. Came home and went to send him a thank you message and he'd already unmatched me. So confused as to...
    69 views0 comments
    F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition
    Christan
    • Oct 18, 2021
    • 1 min

    F*ck That Guy: Men That Ghost After Sex Edition

    Hold on to your butts. We go on a RANT about why women need to stop caring if men ghost after sex. It doesn't matter, ladies. Fuck that...
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    Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship
    Christan
    • Oct 8, 2021
    • 5 min

    Men Aren't The Only Ones Who Lie About Wanting A Relationship

    I had very little success in dating before 2020, but since the pandemic the amount of online dating users increased significantly and I...
    40 views0 comments
    Should She Dump Her Unemployed Boyfriend?
    Christan
    • Oct 7, 2021
    • 1 min

    Should She Dump Her Unemployed Boyfriend?

    IN THIS EPISODE: A Bumble conversation that went horribly wrong Why can she only attract younger men? Should she tell two women they’re...
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    CouchGuy, Pervy Messages & Requests For Nude Pics
    Christan
    • Oct 7, 2021
    • 1 min

    CouchGuy, Pervy Messages & Requests For Nude Pics

    In this episode: 1. The #Couchguy viral video on Tik Tok and why it's another example of people getting off watching a woman be...
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    Should She Tell Men About Her 5 Date Rule?
    Christan
    • Jul 8, 2021
    • 4 min

    Should She Tell Men About Her 5 Date Rule?

    I have a “5 date rule” meaning that I don’t have sex with a man until we have been on at least 5 dates. I’m torn about whether I should...
    70 views0 comments
    Post-Sex Aftercare, Oxytocin Myths & Why Men Pull-Away After Sex
    Christan
    • Jun 22, 2021
    • 1 min

    Post-Sex Aftercare, Oxytocin Myths & Why Men Pull-Away After Sex

    Buckle up, because we're calling some people out in this episode. Content thieves, smug male creators and women that perpetuate ...
    63 views0 comments
    When Will Her Married Boyfriend Leave His Wife?
    Christan
    • Jun 6, 2021
    • 4 min

    When Will Her Married Boyfriend Leave His Wife?

    I was a married and hooked up with a married man at a mutual friend’s party. No excuse-My husband was ten years older than me and we’d...
    69 views0 comments
    What Do You Do When You Catch Your Match In A Lie?
    Christan
    • May 11, 2021
    • 3 min

    What Do You Do When You Catch Your Match In A Lie?

    I just started talking to a guy through a dating app and we moved to texting (my choice). We have really great convo and it’s even...
    55 views0 comments
    Big Little Bonus Episode - Tik Tok Dating, F*ckboy Tests & Why Some Men Don't Rush Sex
    Christan
    • Apr 23, 2021
    • 1 min

    Big Little Bonus Episode - Tik Tok Dating, F*ckboy Tests & Why Some Men Don't Rush Sex

    LISTEN HERE We’re doing a speed round Q & A this includes: Why you should avoid those single dudes on Tik Tok Why won’t he tell her how...
    33 views0 comments
    What's Really Behind Those "Instant Connections" You Feel On First Dates
    Christan
    • Apr 15, 2021
    • 1 min

    What's Really Behind Those "Instant Connections" You Feel On First Dates

    An ex-boyfriend has reached out to me after breaking up 5 months ago. I agreed to talk with him and he very blatantly asked for a ...
    65 views0 comments
    Traumatic Effects Of A Breakup
    Christan
    • Mar 21, 2021
    • 3 min

    Traumatic Effects Of A Breakup

    38 years old guy in my hometown found me on tinder as I was temporarily visiting home. I was ready for a hookup but instead he ...
    67 views0 comments
    Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign
    Christan
    • Feb 21, 2021
    • 2 min

    Those Good Morning Texts Are A Bad Sign

    When matching up on an app ; you chat and maybe talk on the phone - then the next day the “good morning “ texts start — what is...
    120 views0 comments
    Was She Just His COVID Girlfriend?
    Christan
    • Feb 1, 2021
    • 3 min

    Was She Just His COVID Girlfriend?

    Hi! I saw this guy for 10 months and it went slow. And it seemed to be building into more and more . And than 2 months ago he blew off...
    59 views0 comments
    Is Her Situationship Keeping Her Single?
    Christan
    • Jan 18, 2021
    • 3 min

    Is Her Situationship Keeping Her Single?

    Known this guy for 30 years,- best friends brother. he clears his schedule for me on weekends - night my choice - wines and dines - has...
    93 views0 comments
    Did She Scare Him Off Or Was He Always Going To Leave?
    Christan
    • Jan 7, 2021
    • 3 min

    Did She Scare Him Off Or Was He Always Going To Leave?

    I started dating this guy I met on Hinge in the beginning of October. He worked in another city a few hours away, but he often came home...
    62 views0 comments
    How Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?
    Christan
    • Jan 1, 2021
    • 3 min

    How Do You Get Over A Toxic Ex?

    An ex I walked out on last Christmas reappeared via email asking if I’d be in town so that he can give me a gift he’d previously bought...
    57 views0 comments
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