I really enjoy your website and your straightforward advice on dating. I’ve read so many of your readers unfortunate experiences when it ...

Put on your tin foil hat and pull up a chair. We're talking the mysterious death of Rey Rivera. His body plunged through the roof of a ...

What tips can you give to make our profiles stand out? In a world where people are swiping faster than they're brain can process an image...

Photos courtesy of @alittlenudge Okay. Let's unpack this. Who pays on a first date etiquette dictates that the person who asks, should pa...

I was messaging with a guy from Match.com. I asked him if he wanted to do a video chat later that afternoon or the next day. Crickets. S...

Slowly, mainstream dating sites - both free and paid dating sites - are updating their basic details sections so that users can specify t...

Since a big chunk of my job involves giving dating advice and reviewing people dating profiles, I thought I'd put together a little crib ...

How come I only seem to get approached by either physically or emotionally unavailable men?  The only 3 types that ever seem interested ...

What do you make of someone revealing their financial problems after only a couple of dates? In general, talking finances that early on i...

One of the things I am most grateful for during my time writing And That's Why You're Single is proverbial mirror certain readers would h...

In a recent online discussion group I moderated, someone asked, "Once you match with someone, how do you keep the conversation from fizzl...

Medium continues to serve up essays reeking of internalized misogyny with this latest pile of word vomit. Who is the Other Woman? I have ...

From last week's Ask & Answer online session - (Attend the next one - RSVP here) I get matches on Tinder and Coffee Meets Bagel but all p...

What does he mean? I recently had a video date with a man I met on Bumble. After we chatted, he sent me a message saying he enjoyed speak...

Here's my question: I really don't want to date someone with children, and I'm not sure if I should say that in my profile (also, I'm n...

I met a guy through online speed dating and we were a match. He emailed me and asked if we could speak on the phone. During our conversa...

So many of these people seem to say the same things. What should I look for to find someone who is more authentic/honest? Also, I tend t...

Ok Cupid says I have over 700 likes. Yet, none seem to have a paid membership where they can send me a message. They do send me profiles...

When Patrick* messaged me mere minutes after I liked one of his photos, I knew something was off. It’s never been that easy. Usually, it ...

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